"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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whats up i am new to the DJ world and i would really appreciate some help and guidance. This cute girl that i worked with over the summer that i like wrote on my Facebook wall "i miss you!!! please tell me we have the same break so we can get together?". We don't have the same school break but i really want to got out with her what would be the best and most effective response?
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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marcymarc said:
whats up i am new to the DJ world and i would really appreciate some help and guidance. This cute girl that i worked with over the summer that i like wrote on my Facebook wall "i miss you!!! please tell me we have the same break so we can get together?". What would be the best and most effective response?
"When's your break?". Jeez you're really overthinking this one. No need to get witty/fancy. You're not strengthening attraction via a facebook message, just get to the point.
 

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My school break is a week after hers(just my luck). Thanks for the help, i find that one of my biggest problems is that i over think situations to the point were i cant even get myself to respond back.
 

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No it wasn't a question directed to you, it was what you're supposed to tell her!

Anyway so if you don't have the same break then what? Forever alone? Come on will you let the school break dominate your life? ;)
So: "Oh man we don't have the same break, pity! But we should catch up some time, want to (hangout/do stuff) (at time)?"
 

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Thanks for the advise Huffman i appreciate it a lot! i will keep you posted on how things go and for more tips and advise.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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