"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AlexDP said:
Joverby,

I understand why this is important to you. Two things though:

a) This girl is borderline you say. She's no good for you. Yet you're pressuring her to be in an official relationship. What does that say about you?

b) If you want to be in an official relationship with a borderline, if you want her to want it, this is not the way to do it.

Try to relax and think about this on a more rational level. I am in no way having a go at you, I understand you completely. But the way you're behaving and thinking right now isn't going to help your cause.
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I know dude, this whole thing isn't good for me. Like I said, in hind sight I know I should've listened to the you can't negotiate feelings / desire advice I heard. Obviously why I freaked out, saw there wasn't mutual desire and thought I could control it by talking to her. Because it does just seem really stupid to even think about trying. You're right on both points man. IDK , need to change my mentality pretty drastically.

Before I brought it up she was making plans for this weekend w/ me(all on her own accord). So I probably did freak out premmaturely about it but obviously there are a lot bigger issues going on.

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And IDK how you think the lies are no big deal. Unless you don't think she is I guess. I know the bigger issue with that statement is why would I want to be w/ someone who I think lied to me. The short answer, IDK.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You have some Major Retooling to do with yourself....Trust me man I've been there.

I know exactly how you feel, but peep this. If a Woman is really into you and really loves you, this would not be an issue ATALL. She would be the one requesting YOU to change YOUR status if she gives a crap.

You should not be the one caring about this at all...besides who wants a woman that measures her self worth on how many guys she can orbit? does that sound like a quality woman to you???

I swear Facebook will be the Death of modern relationships in this century. Hell it's already started
 
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