Facebook relationship status bet..Married: Help

[slickaz]

so i been seeing this chic for a bit now.
shes funny and brings out the competitive side in me.

ive maintained high value with always putting up a good fight.
ensuring she knows i lost to her on purpose.lol

anyway so 3 days ago we were hanging out and going through some youtuve videos while waiting for our double dates to pick us up.

and she checked facebook.
and said
"why is your relationship status not shown" in a funny way.
me:"yeh i dont have a reason to put it up there"
she: "well heres a challenge that i know you'll lose"
me:<FVK i kno whats comin>"what you got for me?"?
She: "im gonna send you a relationship status update, lets see if you got the b4lls to accept it"
me<double FVK, but its gonna be a 'in a relationship with xx' update> "if i dont?"
she: "well then ill never forget you lost to me"
me: <couple of questions about time that this bet is on for and> "you kno my ego wont let me lose..hit me.."
she: "ok sent"

me log on 2 mins later
facebook: xx has requested your approval on "XX is MARRIED to YOU"
me" yo wtf! is this!!!!"
she: see i knew you wouldnt have the b4lls
me: <FVKKKKK> clicks accept.

now 24 people have called me congratulated me and most of the chics i know have said, wow she is gorgeous!!! but you couldve told me you were lookin to get married!!.congrats and have a wonderful married life..

Fvk!!! my ego!!! she used it...and i knew either way she wins..
if i dont accept she wins..if i accept well she won didnt she..now her friends calling her up and like oh my gosh!! you guys look hott together, congrats!..

advice?

 

[cw92]

i know this may sound weird, but in a similar situation (about 2 weeks ago on facebook), i just made "in an open relationship" with one of my guy friends...i dont know how well that would work for you atm, since im alot younger it seems and the kids my age just take it more as a joke. Im assuming that if u did that with a guy friend, people would legitimately think your gay. Anyway, I did that, and i made some jokes about how she couldnt satisfy me etc... and she just dropped it.

 

[sodbuster]

You are lucky, she could have said gay. I think you just need to suck it up and admit you lost. Unless you really want to take it down the road she's lead you[here comes the bride]. don't be so arrogant next time she offers a dare[this ones got a brain]

 

[slickaz]

this ones got a brain

You are absolutely right, she has a brain, shes very good with it.

but she is also clever to know where the line is to push me.

im trying to figure out how to get out of it without jeopardising the relationship im having with her. i like her as a person and i think as girlfriend she'd be great. im tired of playing the field and more importantly i think i connect with her well so im not sure, she has talked of exclusivity and i have blatantly avoided the topic.
but...how do i play this?

 

[bukowski_merit]

im not really up on this facebook thing... but how exactly do you "lose" by declining it? just because she said you'd lose by declining her or because it's a game on facebook? and what do you lose if you lose? again, i'm not really into the facebook stuff, so i don't know how that works....

as far as how to avoid her talking of exclusivity? you sound like you really want to be with her (And that's cool), so think about that, and answer this question - do you want to be with her exclusively?

you seem to be into her. two questions to always ask about potential LTR: is she high self esteem? what's her sex drive like?

 

[nmartinez12443]

Post this on your wall

"As you may have all heard I am indeed engaged. I have never met a girl that enjoyed and participated fully in my swinger lifestyle (there are times we have to pop a few speed pills to keep up with each other). I knew it was love when I first saw her and Texas Jays dance studio and she gave me a complimentary dance :moon: in the back. Though not all things are good, after her successful sex operation in Thialand we have have had a hell of a time getting married. Seems as though ,EVEN WITH HER OPERATION, she is still considered a male. Wish us luck and if you want an invite to the weekly Thursday Gang Bang send me a pm, so far we have 18"