"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Facebook pickups

Dman101

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I just wanted to post this technique that I've used and am trying to finetune to pick up women on facebook. I look at other peoples friends list and message any girl who may be attractive saying whats up or whats good. I send this out to maybe like 50 girls or so. Then I just wait for the replies and let the interested girls reply and take it from there. Any good ideas on how to finetune this or take the next steps?

Normally, I wind up meeting the real interested girls when they make it easy. One thing that may work is this new line I used this morning to get this cute girls number by saying "that she looks like she'd be cool to chill with and we should get together during the break. Give me your number and I'll let you know whatsup". I've been able to meet around 25 girls so far, but I want to perfect this.

Everyone post your facebook ideas
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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CrunchyNut

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So let me get this straight-your idea for meeting people is to say that you want to meet them? Genius.

Anyway, personally I dont really go for online game, but from what I have heard Myspace is better for it than Facebook. Generally on Myspace everyone can see your profile, whereas on Facebook only others in that network can.
 

Dman101

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the response rate on myspace is soo low that its ridiculous. facebook is much easier
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dman101

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yea i always go the movies on my first date and get some kino
 
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