“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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GoldVault505

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I need a tip. There's this girl I'm working on setting up a date with. She lives in my dorm, but I felt it would be wise to get a telephone number. I dropped by her room and she wasn't there. I just checked her profile on Facebook, and she uploaded her number as part of an image to promote her fashion designs.

The way I see it, if somebody posts info on facebook, I can use it. I wouldn't normally have a problem with calling somebody using a facebook number, but it seems like these days, there is this unspoken rule that no matter what somebody posts on facebook, referencing or utilizing the info is creepy and stalkerish. Any thoughts?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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GoldVault505 said:
I need a tip. There's this girl I'm working on setting up a date with. She lives in my dorm, but I felt it would be wise to get a telephone number. I dropped by her room and she wasn't there. I just checked her profile on Facebook, and she uploaded her number as part of an image to promote her fashion designs.

The way I see it, if somebody posts info on facebook, I can use it. I wouldn't normally have a problem with calling somebody using a facebook number, but it seems like these days, there is this unspoken rule that no matter what somebody posts on facebook, referencing or utilizing the info is creepy and stalkerish. Any thoughts?
In your situation, since she lives in your dorm, you should get the number from her directly.

If you had no way to see her in person, then I would get her EMAIL from facebook, and then email her to get her number.
 

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OK. I just tried to get her number directly tonight and she wasn't there. I don't want to make an ass of myself in the event that I miss her again. I don't want to seem too eager/needy. Perhaps I'll just facebook message for her number.
 

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Never use someone's phone number unless you got it from them or someone that they know (there are exceptions, but definitely not in this case). Since you know her in person, ask her in person. Even if you didn't know her in person, it's expected that you ask for it regardless.
 
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