Facebook opener to girl from party (facebook game)

[returningchamp]

Hey, so i went to a party saturday night. There was this girl there who was eyeballing me. One of her friends told me she wanted to talk to me; i told her i would eventually (didn't want to seem too eager).... Found out she's about 8 years younger than me (im 26 and she's 18 i think).

I ended up passing out on the couch without saying anything to her (long day of playing sports with my bros and drinking).

Didn't even give her much thought until last night.

She sent me an add request on facebook. Which means - she remembered or got my name from someone, looked me up, and went through all that trouble and risk.

I hate online game. I suck at it! My response rate on plenty of fish is like 1.5%! I seem to be way more boring when i talk to women online. Or maybe im just better looking in person? I dunno....

I already added her and it's been about 24 hours. She's about a 7. I've fvcked better, but i like her effort (it makes me think she'll be easy access and who doesn't want that? lol)

How should i approach her on FB? Ideally, exchange 4-5 mail messages, get #, get her to my house and fvck her a few dozen times of a weekend then never speak to her again.

Small talk? always seem to lead to nowhere
Witty talk? may be an option
All out sexual talk? She's my friends gf best friend! not sure i want to become that guy. But maybe just eluding to it?

I dunno... I was thinking (and i realize im doing too much thinking)

"Hey, your friends were really pressuring me to come talk to you the other night. They don't know me well though because i do the opposite of what people want. So if you wanted me to take my pants off - just tell me to keep them on and... off they go! lol.... [then i want to ask her some kind of question here]"

thoughts? i know im over-thinking this, but i got plenty of time to respond - so why not ask others opinions?

 

[the305]

Hey, so i went to a party saturday night. There was this girl there who was eyeballing me. One of her friends told me she wanted to talk to me; i told her i would eventually (didn't want to seem too eager).... Found out she's about 8 years younger than me (im 26 and she's 18 i think).

I ended up passing out on the couch without saying anything to her (long day of playing sports with my bros and drinking).

Didn't even give her much thought until last night.

She sent me an add request on facebook. Which means - she remembered or got my name from someone, looked me up, and went through all that trouble and risk.

I hate online game. I suck at it! My response rate on plenty of fish is like 1.5%! I seem to be way more boring when i talk to women online. Or maybe im just better looking in person? I dunno....

I already added her and it's been about 24 hours. She's about a 7. I've fvcked better, but i like her effort (it makes me think she'll be easy access and who doesn't want that? lol)

How should i approach her on FB? Ideally, exchange 4-5 mail messages, get #, get her to my house and fvck her a few dozen times of a weekend then never speak to her again.

Small talk? always seem to lead to nowhere
Witty talk? may be an option
All out sexual talk? She's my friends gf best friend! not sure i want to become that guy. But maybe just eluding to it?

I dunno... I was thinking (and i realize im doing too much thinking)

"Hey, your friends were really pressuring me to come talk to you the other night. They don't know me well though because i do the opposite of what people want. So if you wanted me to take my pants off - just tell me to keep them on and... off they go! lol.... [then i want to ask her some kind of question here]"

thoughts? i know im over-thinking this, but i got plenty of time to respond - so why not ask others opinions?

the first words out of your mouth to this girl are going to be talking about taking your pants off... ahhh, what? lol

chicks are super sensitive about anything that can be construed as you assuming their easy, after shes into you for sure, you can say all sorts of shyt and she wont care, but you arent at that point just yet.

 

[returningchamp]

the first words out of your mouth to this girl are going to be talking about taking your pants off... ahhh, what? lol

chicks are super sensitive about anything that can be construed as you assuming their easy, after shes into you for sure, you can say all sorts of shyt and she wont care, but you arent at that point just yet.

Yeah, you might be right (but only in online context)...

I say stuff like that to women all the time in person, and in the right setting/mood it works (even if we just meant).... but online probably isn't the right setting, especially when it's hard to get across that im somewhat joking...

how would you proceed?

 

[thedude4242]

thats my problem, asking for sex in the first 10 times.

 

[bukowski_merit]

I don't think it matters too much what you say. This isn't a dating site type thing where you need to be overly impressive; all signs point to her already being interested in you.

So don't sweat it too much; just go for it.

 

[Iceberg]

I dunno... I was thinking (and i realize im doing too much thinking)

"Hey, your friends were really pressuring me to come talk to you the other night. They don't know me well though because i do the opposite of what people want. So if you wanted me to take my pants off - just tell me to keep them on and... off they go! lol.... [then i want to ask her some kind of question here]"

Not sure why anyone would say anything like this. And besides, it's not really anything to overthink.

You: "How's it going Katie. Don't think we got a chance to talk too much at the party. What have you been up to?"

Her: Blah blah blah

You: "That's cool. Well hey, I'm not really into this Facebook stuff. What's your #? We'll hang out."

Nothing about how you're so rebellious that you do the opposite of what people want, or pants coming off, or how her friends wanted you guys to hook up. That's high school s**t.

You just text her, say you thinking about doing (blank) next week and she'll have to come along because it'll be fun.

 

[Tesl]

Ideally, exchange 4-5 mail messages,

Why is this ideal? Facebook is crap, not for conversations - meeting in person is for that.

Iceberg is spot on in his post, do what he says.