"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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facebook girl won't commit straight away to date tomorrow, how to play it?

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drift king

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there's this HB i'm trying to meet up with from facebook and she won't commit to the time exactly.. im not sure if i played it right. i framed it that i was out these next 2 days and can only do between a certain time block of time between 8-10pm on both nights cos i got parties to go to afterwards..

when i called her she says she has a job tomorrow night which she hasn't decided if she's going to take yet and if she doesn't then we can meet, sounds flakey, she told me to call her tomorrow and she'll know then, and if she isn't working then we can meet. should she been the 1 to call me?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Id play it confident and cool the rest of the way. Heck, actually I'd blow her off. Tell her you have other plans.

Give her one more shot, if she flakes next time. NEXT
 
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drift king said:
she told me to call her tomorrow and she'll know then
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If you make this call you're her girlfriend.

You should have never asked her anything. You tell her you're going to do blah, blah ,blah and if she wants to hang with you great. If not, there are other's who do.

You've fallen into supplication for her time and commitment. Get out of it. Send her a message saying something to this effect:

"You know what sweetheart? I can't make it. I've given you an opportunity to come out and obviously you're busy. I accept that. I'm busy too. Someone else has accepted so I'm taking her this time. Once you get a free minute you know where to find me. Hope your day's a good one."

Always have something or someone else to do.
 
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I would play it soft. Call her and don't even mention hanging out. At the end of the call (keep it brief), tell her you're late and you have to get going.

I can bet she'll be the one asking for the next date.
 
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drift king said:
i'm trying to meet up with from facebook QUOTE]

Dude trust me your wasting time and energy on this. Go out and meet a girl in person... not on facebook. They will respect you and fvck you a lot more.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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