"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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AlmostThere!

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If you guys want to game a girl on Facebook, look at her music, movie, or book interests (don't pick the first 5 in her list...) and post something about it in your status. She may comment on it or give it a thumbs up. Don't reply.

Do this maybe three times (one movie, one book, one group). This will have her feel a connection for you.

This only works for girls you talk to in real life but aren't dating. She must know you exist in real life.

Oh, and make sure you update your status when she's online.


I've done this to three girls who I like, talk to, but not dating and they all texted me/emailed me making random conversation. It nows feel natural to transition to seeing her on a more personal level.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This worked rather well on a girl that always ignores texts and calls. She has some interest, but not HL.

So after about two weeks of posting status messages of things I knew interest her (food, movies, etc), she texts me "i wanna go to the mooooovies or a concert with you". I respond back "we can do that" and she texts (almost immediately) "wooohoo!".

You have to be on the down-low about this. Don't post sh*t you have no idea about. And make it random. And only do it when she's online or you risk your status update being buried with all of her other friends.
 
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