"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why_You

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A girl who I dated for over 2 years back in 2008-2010 and who I still have feelings for is being a typical woman. The thing is, it took me a long time to move passed her but looking back at it, I was very immature and insecure about a lot of things in the relationship as too was she. Long story short we fought over and over and we called it quits.

She's a mutual friend of many of my friends so I can see her comment on FB. Took me many months of having her blocked on fb to even handle seeing her online. Over the past several months though, I have noticed her constantly blocking and unblocking me. Trivial stuff you might say. About 2 weeks ago I messaged her saying hi and told her I'd like to get together not as friends but something more. I said block me for good if you don't want a piece of me. Two minutes later I'm blocked.

Now today I get a message from her (unblocked me again) saying hey there hope you know I only want to be not strangers and and nothing more.

Knowing the person that she is, this there's no chance she means what she said. Why block and unblock I know I'm mind fvcking her because I genuinely am indifferent and relaxed with what Im doing.

She's very special to me and please don't afc talk me. There are some times when you have to do these things but just wanted to know what you all think. I haven't replied to her message and don't intend to unless she contacts me again with something more substantial.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tiguere

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She got too many niggas all up on her .while you arw a lonely pathetic duck.

she won't take you back. b!tches want what other b!tches have.

in order for her to see attraction in you she has to see you with hot girls in your pics. they need to be hotter than her.


so stop begging for her like a chump and man up. you have to go out there and get dirty. get knocked down and raise up.

stop being a pvssy
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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How old are you and how old is her?

You must be in high school talking about facebook drama..
 

Starkwell

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geez get over it and move on. Quit even replying to her messages. All she feeds off is the drama. You fought before and she is starting it again. You are dumb enough to play along with it. Ignore her messages and her FB comments.
 

dap

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This is entirely your fault. This was two years ago, you should have moved on. She has no interest. It is time to accept that and go after women who are interested. Never contact her again and block her on facebook.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Why_You

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99.9% of girls I've come across aren't worth digging old graves out and I put myself out there to you guys to hear the perspectives of objective folks.

In these past two years I haven't been sitting at home sulking, that was the first few months lol. Since then I've fvcked more women than I ever did in the time before her, I've dated several women most of which were better looking than her; I've been promoted and earn much much more than when I was with her etc. Please don't picture me as some dude who is destroying his life because he's still in love with one of his ex's.

All I am doing is acknowledging that I was a massive prick to her and my insecurity caused a lot of fights. She caused her fair share too but whatever, I totally get what y'all are saying.
 
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