"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Facebook: "Do I know you?"

DJ Axton

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This is something I've had done to me once a while ago. I met a girl at a party, added her and she came back with the famous "Do I know you?". Needless to say I got nowhere.

Anyway, a few days ago this fit girl added me on facebook. But I have no idea who she is lol. I was thinking of throwing the old "Do I know you?" back at her. Anyone ever tried this?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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eaglez1177

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Ive been in this situation before, where a hot ass girl just friend requests me on facebook. From my experience, I would actually recommend you DONT say the "do I know you", cuz chances are, youre not the only guy this chick has friend requested (meaning theres other guys that will say do i know you" line).

Im gonna advise you to do something different. Set yourself apart from all the other "do i know yous" on her wall. Send her a bumper sticker that may seem "cute", or poke her, or just write "hey wuts up" and act cool and casual like you've known her.
 

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I kno what you mean mate. I hate hit. Some girl added some people. I say so where you from? and others are like Do I know you.

be DIFFERENT. I dont get any fit girls adding my on facebook despite a fit profile pic :( haha
 

Eugene123

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say something like.


HEY

and she'll say hey.


and since shes a random person adding you say

Can I ask you a quick question?


and she'll prob say

Sure

Then you say

Your not some like 40 year old man... In his mom's basement... like petting a chicken.

and she'll laugh

then talk to her say ohh hey i have to go in a bit so whats up.

then talk for like a little bit and

then ask her for aim.

I use this **** and it works like maybe like all the time.

Sometimes I get a person who ****ing doesn't know how to speak English, and she says what?!
 

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I had something like this recently. I met this girl at my campus and she was cute. I forgot about her because it was finals. Five days later, I get a friends request with the message "Do I know you?"

I told her who I was, and she said back "I thought you were someone else that I was looking for, but hey."

I kept track of her friends on facebook to see if she found any of the other Kyle's that she was looking for. No one ever showed up, but I moved in for the meeting and then the kiss. The rest is history :p

- comic_relief
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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fertileTurtle

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Did it once and did not work at all. Try someting a little bit smarter yo. Maybe a dig at her look or something. Hah you'd make a strange looking granny!

And yeahs, comic relief. My eyes have been opened to facebook gaming the last month. It's so easy man. You're drunks at a bar so you get her number then get her facebook page or get her name written down and then her number on facebook.

It's like the Bob Dylan song "The Times They Are A Chang'n." You better change with them or you'll "sink like a stone."
 

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comic_relief said:
Five days later, I get a friends request with the message "Do I know you?"

- comic_relief
So she remembered your name or something? How did she do it? You must have an easy to remember name spelled like Bob Smith or Jack Crust.
 

eaglez1177

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fertileTurtle said:
Did it once and did not work at all. Try someting a little bit smarter yo. Maybe a dig at her look or something. Hah you'd make a strange looking granny!
And yeahs, comic relief. My eyes have been opened to facebook gaming the last month. It's so easy man. You're drunks at a bar so you get her number then get her facebook page or get her name written down and then her number on facebook.

It's like the Bob Dylan song "The Times They Are A Chang'n." You better change with them or you'll "sink like a stone."
For the love of god please tell me you did not actually say this.
 
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