"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Borknagar

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I'm barely seeing the same women as Tinder and POF, but anyone know what the level of bots are on that?

Keep in mind, I've been away from online dating, Tinder was brand new to me as of last year, I was laughed at when I didn't get the swipe left and right stuff like I was living under a rock, which I guess I practically was. Would have been cool to check out Tinder when it was new though.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Young OG

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I'm barely seeing the same women as Tinder and POF, but anyone know what the level of bots are on that?

Keep in mind, I've been away from online dating, Tinder was brand new to me as of last year, I was laughed at when I didn't get the swipe left and right stuff like I was living under a rock, which I guess I practically was. Would have been cool to check out Tinder when it was new though.
I’ve had a lot of success with FB Dating. I didn’t encounter any bots.
 
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