"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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FACEBOOK DATING - Dr. Phil, FRI. April 16th

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I will be a featured guest on Dr. Phil, Friday April 16th, to discuss my experiences on Facebook, along with my book, "The Facebook Datebook for Men." I actually have a debate with Kelly Osborne! Ha!

Many of you fellas have already checked out the eBook and Paperbacks and I appreciate it! If you want more info on the show, or to see what the book is about (and Free Excerpts), check out:

http://www.FlynessPublishing.com or http://www.FacebookDatebook.com.


For some free stuff, check out this article and interview I did for "Naked with Socks On": http://www.nakedwithsockson.com/2009/12/17/online-dating-tips-for-men-women/
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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kingsam

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facebook dating - for those with no socail skills! who cant talk to a woman in REAL LIFE face to face!
 

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hahaha I love the part where Osbourne asks the kid whether "he feels like a prostitute for having a girl pay for sex". I wonder what her face would have been had someone thrown it back in her face with a comparison to normal dating.

But I agree though, I think you were expecting them to be open to the idea, but they got in with a harsh drama story about how the girl felt cheated with your business. Not exactly a smooth promotional interview ;)

Good experience tho, keep it up!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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will watch when im on a computer with sound, but is it any surprise he did get served by dr. phil? (if indeed he did)

people like mystery, YRF, really anyone with copious amounts of confidence will always get scorned by the media for their "alternative" views.
 

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All I wanna know is what the fvck that fatass cvnt Osbourne is doing there? NOBODY CARES ABOUT YOU YOU DUMB TW*T!!!

edit: tw*t is censored
 

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You did fine Fly.
Don't worry about anything.
The haters - they don't get this.

They think the world is a giant romantic comedy where the guy should get the girl only at the very end.

In reality, they'd rather we be more subtle.
They can't handle reality - it's too extreme for them to even comprehend.
Most literally think we have some scary map that we use to sleep with girls and that we're 'seducing' them with unworldly 'tactics'.

That guy that was benefiting from your work.
He's a lot like me.
Shi?, my girlfriend pays to come see me all the time. Am I prostitute? People are so sheltered.
 

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I PMed Flyness, and part of my response to him was that:

It's so absurd that Osbourne implied that the kid was a prostitute for a woman paying for his plane ticket to go see her.

I'm pretty sure had you asked her what she thought of a man paying for a plane ticket to fly her out to see him... she would have said it was romantic.

It's an audience full of women and they're all going to react a certain way based on how they are "supposed to feel".

But I'm sure at least a bunch of women there were wondering what Flyness would be like in bed.

BTW, that girl broke up with him through Facebook status. And no one made a big deal out of that. Can it get any lamer than that?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Thanks to everyone for the words! I haven't been on this site in MONTHS (I think since April. The ratings for the show were through the roof as this has been one of the most repeated episodes.

See you on the boards!
 
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