Married now for 3 years.
I register with Facebook back in January. Start adding friends. I see an old ex-gf from 6-7 years back. I friend her and she accepts and we exchange a friendly e-mail. A while goes by and then one day about 3 months later, out of nowhere, she sends me a message "been iceskating lately"?. This is something we did a few times while we were seeing each other.
She doesn't have alot of activity on her site the few times I've went there so she made a purposeful attempt to get on and message me which she doesn't normally do alot it would appear even with other friends. She is married now too.
Now it's pretty obvious we stick out in each others minds being that we have a history. Thats natural.
My question: I'm thinking...whats really the point of friending people you know if you aren't going to speak to them much and in situations like this, with both of us being married, is it just weird to be socially connected on Facebook given our past?? The question she asked me was so out of left field and unexpected that I was thinking, "Why should this catch my attention and make me think"? Well, obviously because she's an ex.
Now I know what some of you are thinking: Radiodude....no no no!:trouble:
I am making too big a deal or reading too much into this??
I register with Facebook back in January. Start adding friends. I see an old ex-gf from 6-7 years back. I friend her and she accepts and we exchange a friendly e-mail. A while goes by and then one day about 3 months later, out of nowhere, she sends me a message "been iceskating lately"?. This is something we did a few times while we were seeing each other.
She doesn't have alot of activity on her site the few times I've went there so she made a purposeful attempt to get on and message me which she doesn't normally do alot it would appear even with other friends. She is married now too.
Now it's pretty obvious we stick out in each others minds being that we have a history. Thats natural.
My question: I'm thinking...whats really the point of friending people you know if you aren't going to speak to them much and in situations like this, with both of us being married, is it just weird to be socially connected on Facebook given our past?? The question she asked me was so out of left field and unexpected that I was thinking, "Why should this catch my attention and make me think"? Well, obviously because she's an ex.
Now I know what some of you are thinking: Radiodude....no no no!:trouble:
I am making too big a deal or reading too much into this??