"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Face or Body?What are girls more attracted to?

spider_007

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It's the same thing as aking a guy; Which of the folowing would you take

-gurl with an ugly face and hot body

or

-gurl with an ugly body and a nice face.

same goes for woman....
(personaly I would take the first one, there is always the "grossery bag" option)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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allan976

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I shouldn't be replying since the answer to this question is answered so thoroughly both in the DJ Bible and in ASF, but the simple answer is you need to work on everything: the appearance of your face, your body, your self confidence, your techniques, you name it. All of it matters.

A handsome face is a plus, a nice body plus a nice face is better: confidence plus a nice face and nice body is better yet, and of course, being confident, having a nice face, and a nice body and nice clothes is even better yet. Add in social prestige from admirers, wealth, and so on as major positives. It's not so much that wealth is attractive, as is the inner confidence and social prestige that wealth garner which are attractive. You get the picture. Isn't the answer obvious? Get out in the field, improve yourself, and enjoy yourself.

I tolerate many of these questions since I used to ask and wonder myself lol.

Peace,

Allan
 
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