"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Face or Body?What are girls more attracted to?

NoMoreAFC

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many girls told me that i dont have an attractive face, they say my body is ok but it can go better once i start lifting. i also have light green bambie eyes which they say is kinda cute. well is it truth that face is more important than a well- toned and muscular body?

if so, if your face is keeping you from getting girls, what can u do? nothing? will your game be ****ed up because of your bad genetics?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Yeah i think face counts more than body for women. Eyes score a big bonus from what i hear.

Luckily, you can compensate by having nice muscles. A bit of muscles is always better than skinny or fat. I think a majority of women agree with that.

Don't worry bro, with a charming personality and genuine self-confidence you can win many girls over despite any lack in looks.
 

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I have the same face I had four years ago and hardly ever got the attention I get now. I've been working out hard ever since and always get looks from the hottest chicks because I am so much more muscular. I would say face is more important but the body will get you noticed before the face.
 

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I'm 5'5",120lb (skinny ass dude). Without my face girls wouldn't give me a second glance.
 

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I cant say for most females but I like a guy with a cute face..decent body..he doesnt have to be cut and he could be skinny. As long as his face and hair is nice...Also his personality.. Cant stand Dorky guys.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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well for me its my face and neck, and waist neck ? well some girls say my neck and colar bones are sexy, dont ask me :crackup:
im a slim dude by the way. i think some women are attracted to guys that look sorta femine,not metrosexual feminine but some kinda feminine traits like,dark eye lashes and nice lips ,slim necks, while some like masculine faces example george clooney , stallon, scharzinegger(spelling) etc, so it varies. if you lack in the face department then work on your body it helps alot it helped a friend of mine score loads of girls while some girls were scared of him because he was too bulky but he seemed to attract more hot milfs.
 

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What a woman will find attractive in a man will vary between each woman as an individual.


Laterz...
 

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From a distance, your muscular body will probably score you more points, but when you get up close to a woman, it is better to have a nice face I think. But, I think MOST women are more concerned with the person as a WHOLE: personality, overall appearance, intelligence, etc. If you lack in one area, you might make up for it in others so it becomes insignificant. If a woman is attracted to you, your faults are ignored at the same time she is trying to make up logical reasons WHY she likes you.

But since you asked, on the face I have heard women absolutely LOVE nice looking eyes, and lips. They stare into your purty eyes, and then they continually glance at your lips as you talk. The lip look is often when they're thinking more sexually. Women on the forums, tell me how accurate this is.

Tazman, I'm with ya dude, I am a respectable 5'8", but I'll be damned if I can break 130 lbs. Face is like all I got too, I can't lie to myself and say I look like Schwarzenegger in the muscle department, but I'm thankful for my face. I work out some too but what good does it do when you have such a small frame, and a small head on top of that? It might actually make you look worse if you look really out of proportion like that, which is why I said f it.

For a woman, I don't care how good her body looks.... if her face is not hot I don't want her. If she has a great face but mediocre body, she is in a much better position with me. I just like average female bodies: a bit of hourglass shape and average weight and average tits and ass, nothing more. I'm thinking most women are the same way but care even less about your body.
 

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I'm surprised no one touched on this aspect.


A woman will go for a guy with a well built body, if she's looking for a ONS. Personlity be-damned in most cases.

The guys who have both the face and the body get most of the action, as far as ONS with a hot chick.



I say love what you have, and improve on it as much as you can, without being vain about it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Women are most attracted to personality.

They don't judge us on looks as much as we judge women on looks. A woman will go out with a less than perfect looking guy if she is attracted to his personality, whereas even if a girl is super nice but a 2 or 3 on a 10 point scale she wouldnt have a chance with most guys.
 

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Originally posted by penkitten
i like eyes i can get lost in:cheer:
That's exactly what I was talking about, I just couldn't explain it like a woman can :) I like the vagina I can get lost in. Actually, on second thought, I don't, hehe.
 

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Originally posted by pimpfromdayone
That's exactly what I was talking about, I just couldn't explain it like a woman can :) I like the vagina I can get lost in. Actually, on second thought, I don't, hehe.
ROFL
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Tazman
I'm 5'5",120lb (skinny ass dude). Without my face girls wouldn't give me a second glance.

I, on the other hand, am 5'11'', and weigh 218 (yeah, I'm a big guy) And I have the same thing, with out my face, I would be the most lonely guy on the face of the earth
 

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Im 16 and 120 lbs...without my face game would be soo much harder




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Founder of Ultimate HSDJ Technique
 

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my eyes are like the ocean

they have a calming and soothing affect on women

but when i am angry they are like an ocean amidst a terrible storm

striking fear into the hearts of my enemies


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 

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Originally posted by Lost In Translation
my eyes are like the ocean

they have a calming and soothing affect on women

but when i am angry they are like an ocean amidst a terrible storm

striking fear into the hearts of my enemies


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
F*CKING POET!:crackup:


Laterz....
 

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Originally posted by Lost In Translation
my eyes are like the ocean

they have a calming and soothing affect on women

but when i am angry they are like an ocean amidst a terrible storm

striking fear into the hearts of my enemies


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
Absolute genius, plain and simple.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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