"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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hitchcock1

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i'm a naturally thin guy. but i bulked up to 165, i'm at 5'10". i run and lift often. i have now tight abs and good build.

the only thing that hasn't caught up is my face in terms of bulk. BIG DEAL you may say, but people somehow don't notice my shoulders or chest when they see my face looks like it shrunk down (probably from cardio).

i looked at pictures from a party and it does look like i'm really skinny if you just look at my face.

will doing squats and deadlifts more often increase HGH and testosterone to bulk up my face more?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Skilla_Staz

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I'm guessing that you can't really "bulk up" your face. Most of the visible size in your face is fat tissue, the muscles aren't really trainable and probably aren't easy to increase in size. I have a feeling that you're just going to have to deal with it.

At 5'10 and 165, you are still a relatively thin guy. I'm 10lbs lighter than you, same height and I look like a stick sometimes.
 

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i DO think that doing compound exercises like squats and deadlifts
cause a global increase in muscle mass, so they probably increase
some muscle bulk in your face, just like everywhere else in your body.

too bad you can't selectively increase fat in your face :)
 

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Can't really train the muscles in your face. If you use AAS or HGH etc frequently or in high doses it can dramatically change your face. I'll try and dig up a picture that compares Ronnie Coleman to how he looked when he was 20, and how he looks now. I doubt anyone here will go to that extreme in terms of substance assistance but just so you can get an idea.
 

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i DO think that doing compound exercises like squats and deadlifts
cause a global increase in muscle mass, so they probably increase
some muscle bulk in your face, just like everywhere else in your body.
What are you talking about? That doesn't make any sort of of sense.:confused:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Slevin said:
What are you talking about? That doesn't make any sort of of sense.:confused:
heavy compounds like squats and deads increase your hGH production and testosterone levels, in turn making other skeletal muscles beef up. your facial muscles are not excluded from this.
 

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I'm going with Skilla on this one...you're still pretty slim. I'd say you're best bet is to do tons of heavy compounds and also do deads and shrugs, to bulk up your neck area.
 

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gaining more mass will be tough without losing some six pack. in the winter i don't really care but the six pack is nice for the summer :)

at 5'10" should I really be about 180 ?

i'm a super thin guy, going over 170 will be tough.
 

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I would like to get to 170 before football season, and hopefully 180-185 by next summer. It's only tough if you think it tough. If you eat, lift and sleep like you should, you'll be able to get up to 170 within the next few months or so.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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