I only write this because it was something I have never encountered before. I met up with a girl a while ago.
I began the date by giving her a hug. We talked, I was being myself with her, ****y and funny, teasing and pushing her when she said something ****y and all that stuff. Anyways, normally the girls will start to open up and increase the eye contact when I do this. I am very good at reading girls, I can usually feel her interest within just a few secs after meeting her or the first time she reveal a sign of interest.
This girl didn't show any signs off interest, I MEAN NO SIGNS!. She was REALLY hard to get. Little eye contact, she was the type off cute, smart and logical girl. I felt we had a rapport but she didn't commit to it so easy when we talked she had fun but she didn't open up so much. I felt she was kind off interested but I was very unsure off her behavior. This was disturbing because women usually pick ME up.
Anyways I told her I just moved out and got my own place and asked her if she wanted to see it and maybe have a cup off coffe or something. Just a shot out off the blue. She agreed to it. Yes, but this was a strong girl, she had high self esteem and stuff and would actually be emotionally detacched enough to just see the place.
Anyways, we got back to my place and sat down in my couch. This was about after one and a half hours. Too long date for my taste. Her body language was closed, her arms over her chest and her legs crossed. But I connected with her verbaly.
Anyways, we had a conversation that reminded me off a duelling with swords. It was really hard not to go too fast, but still try to gain. After a while I managed to get talk about training and sex, we both trained, she was a gymnast.
She said the thing she didn't like with doing gymnastics was that she got strong legs. (they looked fine by me). Anyways I got some kino in when I felt her legs. Anyways, from there I got closer, talked a little more while I started to caress them and she STILL didn't show so much off a sign. I was starting to think that this girl was psyco. I talked for a while trying to rhyme my kino with my words. Touched her hair and then touched her face. THEN I finally went in for the kiss. And man, she just exploded and we made out like crazy. This was about 3 hours in on the date. Went to my bed. She was unsure and didn't want to have sex on the first date. I told her I wouldn't tell anyone if she had this. From there on I lead the whole thing, taking off my clothes and heating her up, then finally she agreed.
I will not see this girl again. She reminded me off who I used to be. Too logical and too little passion. But it really was a challenge.
The point is, even if a girl doesn't show all that much interest she can still be interested. Lesson learned for me.
I began the date by giving her a hug. We talked, I was being myself with her, ****y and funny, teasing and pushing her when she said something ****y and all that stuff. Anyways, normally the girls will start to open up and increase the eye contact when I do this. I am very good at reading girls, I can usually feel her interest within just a few secs after meeting her or the first time she reveal a sign of interest.
This girl didn't show any signs off interest, I MEAN NO SIGNS!. She was REALLY hard to get. Little eye contact, she was the type off cute, smart and logical girl. I felt we had a rapport but she didn't commit to it so easy when we talked she had fun but she didn't open up so much. I felt she was kind off interested but I was very unsure off her behavior. This was disturbing because women usually pick ME up.
Anyways I told her I just moved out and got my own place and asked her if she wanted to see it and maybe have a cup off coffe or something. Just a shot out off the blue. She agreed to it. Yes, but this was a strong girl, she had high self esteem and stuff and would actually be emotionally detacched enough to just see the place.
Anyways, we got back to my place and sat down in my couch. This was about after one and a half hours. Too long date for my taste. Her body language was closed, her arms over her chest and her legs crossed. But I connected with her verbaly.
Anyways, we had a conversation that reminded me off a duelling with swords. It was really hard not to go too fast, but still try to gain. After a while I managed to get talk about training and sex, we both trained, she was a gymnast.
She said the thing she didn't like with doing gymnastics was that she got strong legs. (they looked fine by me). Anyways I got some kino in when I felt her legs. Anyways, from there I got closer, talked a little more while I started to caress them and she STILL didn't show so much off a sign. I was starting to think that this girl was psyco. I talked for a while trying to rhyme my kino with my words. Touched her hair and then touched her face. THEN I finally went in for the kiss. And man, she just exploded and we made out like crazy. This was about 3 hours in on the date. Went to my bed. She was unsure and didn't want to have sex on the first date. I told her I wouldn't tell anyone if she had this. From there on I lead the whole thing, taking off my clothes and heating her up, then finally she agreed.
I will not see this girl again. She reminded me off who I used to be. Too logical and too little passion. But it really was a challenge.
The point is, even if a girl doesn't show all that much interest she can still be interested. Lesson learned for me.
