"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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F*CK Mood Swings...

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Frick how do you guys deal with mood swings from girls?

My gf just now had a major one and is all pissed/sad at me.
She makes me sad now too..i'm starting to get pissed too. :cuss:



Damniiit...how do you guys deal with Mood swings from girls?
Right now i'm just not talking to her...let her cool off abit.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Personally I "deal" by not giving a sh1t.

I change the subject and bring her into my positive upbeat frame. If she is being a b1tch then I will let her cry ALONE and be a loser ALONE. And I will go have fun.

If she needs some sex to feel better, then I will be there to make her feel better, but if she is trying to implant her bullsh1t into my time and yes, it is always 99% bullsh1t that isn't even serious, then I will let her talk to her gf/AFC male buddies about that sh1t and make good use of my life.
 
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Yea man basically what I did. Shes all happy now again.
I let her cool off abit...then she texted me. So I start texting her back and joking around, and now shes back to normal.

Now I got a date setup with her this Tuesday for a nice hot-tube party...just the two of us. And she said her parents will be out of town that night for camping. :up:
 
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