Ugh, I don't even know where to start with this sh!t. I've been working myself into a deeper and deeper depression for the past few weeks and it's really starting to suck.
I worked my ass off getting in shape for spring break a few weeks ago, I was probably in the best shape of my life, and now I'm worse than when I started. I'm starting a new diet/workout plan next week but I feel really damn ugly.
I was looking for a new job for a year, I finally found one, and it only pays $12 f*cking dollars an hour. How the hell am I supposed to survive on that bullsh!t? Especially when I have a BS in Civil Engineering and should be making $40-50k right now! I'm REALLY anxious about money because of my fragile financial situation, and this didn't help me at all. It just made me more upset because I got my hopes up and then they were completely destroyed when I found out the pay.
On top of that I need all new clothes; I look and feel like complete sh!t when I'm out and about because all I have to wear are faded ass t-shirts, some jeans that are on the brink of falling apart and some shoes that have already started falling apart. My new job was supposed to solve that but doesn't look like that's happening any time soon.
I don't even want to approach women because of how ugly/bad looking I feel.
I hardly go out anymore, and when I do I usually make an idiot out of myself. I'm planning on not drinking anymore but I don't know how far that will go.
I can't make new friends. I don't know how. Hell, I don't even know how to go to a party and have a good time anymore. Last week I went to a party at a friend's house and didn't know what to say to anyone; I felt like a complete outcast so I just left. And even if I do get someone's number or something I don't know what to do. I end up sitting at home contemplating calling someone new to hang out with but have no idea what to do with them, so I just end up sitting there alone watching TV or playing Xbox.
Hell, I even have some girls' numbers that I've been meaning to call up and do something with but I just don't want to because my self esteem is so low. I keep telling myself I'll do it when I look better and have clothes that aren't sh!tty.
I've come to the realization that I've always had problems making meaningful connections with other people, especially other guys, which is definitely my biggest problem, but it's gotten so bad lately where nobody who are supposed to be my friends calls me back; I feel like they're sick of me calling them to hang out. I need new friends because I'm sick of this sh!t and sitting at home all the time is so f*cking depressing. But I don't know what to do or where to go; I don't even know how to make f*cking friends with people.
I have all these barriers up and I don't know how to even start dismantling them. I've confined myself to this little cage yet I can't get myself to break free. I don't know what to do anymore. I guess I need some encouragement or a kick in the ass or something because I feel absolutely terrible about myself.
I worked my ass off getting in shape for spring break a few weeks ago, I was probably in the best shape of my life, and now I'm worse than when I started. I'm starting a new diet/workout plan next week but I feel really damn ugly.
I was looking for a new job for a year, I finally found one, and it only pays $12 f*cking dollars an hour. How the hell am I supposed to survive on that bullsh!t? Especially when I have a BS in Civil Engineering and should be making $40-50k right now! I'm REALLY anxious about money because of my fragile financial situation, and this didn't help me at all. It just made me more upset because I got my hopes up and then they were completely destroyed when I found out the pay.
On top of that I need all new clothes; I look and feel like complete sh!t when I'm out and about because all I have to wear are faded ass t-shirts, some jeans that are on the brink of falling apart and some shoes that have already started falling apart. My new job was supposed to solve that but doesn't look like that's happening any time soon.
I don't even want to approach women because of how ugly/bad looking I feel.
I hardly go out anymore, and when I do I usually make an idiot out of myself. I'm planning on not drinking anymore but I don't know how far that will go.
I can't make new friends. I don't know how. Hell, I don't even know how to go to a party and have a good time anymore. Last week I went to a party at a friend's house and didn't know what to say to anyone; I felt like a complete outcast so I just left. And even if I do get someone's number or something I don't know what to do. I end up sitting at home contemplating calling someone new to hang out with but have no idea what to do with them, so I just end up sitting there alone watching TV or playing Xbox.
Hell, I even have some girls' numbers that I've been meaning to call up and do something with but I just don't want to because my self esteem is so low. I keep telling myself I'll do it when I look better and have clothes that aren't sh!tty.
I've come to the realization that I've always had problems making meaningful connections with other people, especially other guys, which is definitely my biggest problem, but it's gotten so bad lately where nobody who are supposed to be my friends calls me back; I feel like they're sick of me calling them to hang out. I need new friends because I'm sick of this sh!t and sitting at home all the time is so f*cking depressing. But I don't know what to do or where to go; I don't even know how to make f*cking friends with people.
I have all these barriers up and I don't know how to even start dismantling them. I've confined myself to this little cage yet I can't get myself to break free. I don't know what to do anymore. I guess I need some encouragement or a kick in the ass or something because I feel absolutely terrible about myself.