I had 3 fb last week. One got pissed at me and is "officially mad at me"
I am waiting for her to calm down a bit...
Basically I think there are 2 different approaches for 2 types of girls.
The first type has realtively weak social brainwashing and can accept that she just wants to fvck. Consciously she defines her wants and needs. She wants **** with no strings attached (no pun intended)
The trick is not to date this type, but just fvck them good the first couple of times. If you date them, they get disappointed, cause the want cokk now, not dating.
I used someone's method, and when I was in the middle of fukkin, I stopped and asked: "just friends, right?" She agreed.
The second type are the socially brainwashed types. They want sex only subconsciously, but society demands that the sex provider be either exclusive boyfriend or even a husband in extreme cases. They are a bit harder to turn into a fukkbuddy, but they become loyal.
With this type, you basically have to fight their beleifs about relationships which are very strong. (othervise she's type 1) You do not actually talk to her about fbuddy thing. I date them, show them my social proof, make them feel good in a crowd, play hard to get etc. This attaches them emotionally on a very deep level. Usually it's easy, because they're not very outgoing and have a max of 2 prospects.
Then I distance myself away and they start to worry and think about me all the time.
By this point, they're hooked. I have the emotional advantage. The distance makes them "fall in love" because they can't understand what they did wrong that turned me cold.
Then I do something like a reconciliation(sp?) where I sit her down and tell her I actually like her, but I can't be bf/gf cause I am too busy right now and I have another girl who I am trying to break up with. Then I kiss her.
Now, she made a small acceptance - she's with me while she knows I'm officially with another girl. Good bye a few societal barriers.
Welcome *******s.
This temporary sitation where I'm still breaking up with my first gf for the last... 4 months already. This keeps the #2 girl emotionally invested, cause she's worrying about you sleeping with your gf, so she can't leave you.
What I have to figure out next, is how to get them together. How to make a bi from a straight girl?
