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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

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Eyeglasses tips

ImprovingJuan

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i didnt know where to post this, so if a mod is willling to move this to the correct spot i appreciate it.

i need to start using eyeglasses (cant use contact lenses unfortunately). can someone give me some tips of what looks cool and not too nerdy nowadays (specially the frames).

thanks in advance
 

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She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Nerdy is sexy. Cool is whatever you want it to be.
Its your state of mind that governs your worth, sex appeal, vibe and attractiveness in others. Whatever glasses you decide, of course there is an element of what other people will think.
I wear a slick pair of Osiris. My friend loves chucky ones with big bright colours. Just own it, whatever. Get those attendants to help as they know which ones will go with your face/shape. Good luck bro!
 

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thanks don-koong, it's just i find the glasses/braces combo kind of geeky/nerdy you know, oh and my line of work is computers lol. but i've seen some of those you mentioned right now, and there are some cool ones.

i will definitely ask the attendant for something that makes me look younger and confident with them on (i'm 38).
 

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I think the chunky ones look a bit Clarke Kent. My neices love these ones though. I tend to go for the skinny ones since I am 34 and dont want to look like a peedo lol
 

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ImprovingJuan said:
i need to start using eyeglasses (cant use contact lenses unfortunately).
I'm in this same boat. It sucks, it's hard to look like a real hard ass when you wear glasses. But file it under things I can't do anything about.

The thing about glasses is the same ones that look good on me might not look good on you. They have to match your face. If you have good assistants at the eye place, they will help you find a good pair that looks good on you. I also always take a female along that I can trust to help me decide what looks best. Because without my glasses I can't see, so it doesn't do me much good to try on frames without help.

If you have the money to spend, maybe you can get an extra pair of prescription sunglasses, those might look cooler. They have the kind that change color with the sun, but I don't think those ever really get dark enough to look cool.
 

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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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