“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Eye Of The Tiger

TonyTheTigerOI

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Rising up, back on the street.
Did my time, took my chances,
Went the distance, now I’m back on my feet.
Just a man and his will to survive.
So many times it happens to fast,
You trade your passion for glory.
Don’t loose your grip on the dreams of the past,
You must fight just to keep them alive.
It’s the eye of the tiger, the thrill of the fight,
Rising up to the challenge of our rival,
The last known survivor stalks his prey in the night
And he’s watching us all with the eye,
The eye of the tiger!

How often do you hear guys talking about a woman’s body... as apposed to a woman’s eyes, lips or hair? Culture is to blame. Eye contact is sometimes viewed as offensive, and is usually associated with a certain uneasiness.

Offensive EC, or staring, is a product of an emotionless [or negative] glance. If you witness something unbelievable you will undoubtedly stare. After gaining experience with women, you will find them more and more believable... most of the “hotties” you used to fixate on [drool and all] will barely catch your attention. But, for the budding green DJ, help reduce staring by smiling and relaxing/softening your expression.

The uneasiness you feel is both a result of culture, and a few startling ‘side effects’ prolonged EC may have.

“I AM WOMAN, HEAR ME ROAR!”

Modern culture makes every woman out to be wonder woman. They’re not. Women are not deserving of the fear many men feel when they attempt to hold EC with them.

“I am man, I need not roar.”

While holding EC you may begin to feel restless, start fidgeting, or be compelled to look away from your target. This is natural. The more accustomed to EC you become the less ‘side effects’ you will experience. Like anything else, EC requires a level of confidence to be done correctly. Build confidence through practice.

Your face is capable of thousands of expressions [with varying degrees and combinations of just over one hundred base expressions]... be in control of your appearance. If you walk around making EC while frowning, people will be afraid, or feel threatened by you. Conversely, if you walk around with a huge grin, people will find you weird, or maybe even scary.

Walk around making EC, with a look of a man who anticipates the punch line to a funny joke - you know something good is going to happen, so you’re just barely smiling. Once you make EC and say hi, show those purely whites!

Once in a conversation, you can lead your target through a topic with simple supplication and facial expressions.

Hey, what’s up<smile>?
-Oh, not much.
<Raises eyebrows and leans forward slightly, remaining silent, as if requesting more info>
-Just got back from the store.
Really?
-Yeah, had to pick up some bread and eggs.

When someone is having a bad day, an empathetic look sometimes says more than the sweetest words of good-will. Relax your eyes, raise your eyebrows slightly, and coyly smile to show understanding of their poor circumstances.

When flirting and teasing, a broad, laughing smile with a scrunched nose while throwing your head back emphasizes whatever you were mocking your target about, and usually educes a play fighting, or some attitude from her. When she sasses you [attitude is so sexy!], raise one eyebrow and turn up your lips, as if saying “Yeah, sure thing hunny.”

Practice your EC and facial expressions in the mirror... just the basics: happiness, requesting more information, ****y/funny, and get the muscle memory down. Hold eye contact in every situation you can - with teachers, your friends, girls [ESPECIALLY ugly ones]. Be careful not to stare at men that are not friends, as hard EC is perceived as a threat by men.

Attraction building EC - your gaze sends your target a message, and will often lead to deep rapport. Done in a woman’s intimate distance [within 2 feet], and best coupled with intermediate-heavy kino, look deep into her eyes with a soft expression. Slowly look from her eyes, to her lips, and back to her eyes. Also, using slow, soft kino, if you run your fingers through her hair, look at her hair. If you trace her shoulder, down her arm, to her hand, follow the path of your fingers on her skin.

Eye contact is nothing to be afraid of, in fact, it’s a very powerful technique deserving of special consideration and practice. Happy hunting, DJ’s ;-)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Oxide

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Look up bondjamesbond thread on this my man.

Good post
 

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Good Post Tony. EC is probably the first thing any aspiring DJ should learn IMO. I used to and still do somewhat have the problem have smiling too much. I even earned the nickname "smiles". I also do seem to stare a little as well. Oh well I'll get better with experience.
 

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Heh... I know who you are...

You cannot hide from "TEH WUWD"...
 

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Very nice, Eye contact is an essential part of our lives. When you walk, do you have head high looking at everyone that passes, or do you hold it down watching your feet. These both are immediate sign of your confidence.

Good stuff. :D
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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