"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Eye contact

Docka

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This happened to me a couple of times. When you give them strong eye contact they would say, "What?"

Just to let you know, these are girls you've meet before, maybe seen them a dozen of times.

It seems like it makes the girl feel uneasy. Is it a good thing? What would happen, if i continue to show strong eye contact?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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tactic

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you're not supposed to use it without a rapport.. or you shouldn't use them like you're some kind of weirdo.
 
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