"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Eye contact ??!

keemojung

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How should I maintain eye contact with my dating partner

during having a dinner together?

Usually, we will site opposite to each other, face to face.

During the conversation, we have an eye contact,

but, some people said that don't maintain eye contact too much

otherwise your partner will feel uneasy.

1. So, how do u guys maintain the eye contact during talking with your dating partner?

2.Is it you or the girl who breaks eye contact first or it doesn't matter in this situation?

Sometimes, i need to think of sth and i can't maintain eye contact and thinking at the same time.

3.Or should I just sit beside her instead of opposite to her so that

it reduce the pressure of facing each other?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Chamber36

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Strong eye contact conveys confidence, and also shows you are interested in what she's saying.
 

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keemojung said:
How should I maintain eye contact with my dating partner

during having a dinner together?

Usually, we will site opposite to each other, face to face.

During the conversation, we have an eye contact,

but, some people said that don't maintain eye contact too much

otherwise your partner will feel uneasy.

1. So, how do u guys maintain the eye contact during talking with your dating partner?

2.Is it you or the girl who breaks eye contact first or it doesn't matter in this situation?

Sometimes, i need to think of sth and i can't maintain eye contact and thinking at the same time.

3.Or should I just sit beside her instead of opposite to her so that

it reduce the pressure of facing each other?
You want to stare, but not like a crazy person. Make sure you're RELAXED, especially your eyes (don't be super wide-eyed). Nod as she talks, and switch between looking in her left eye, right eye and at her lips so you don't go cross-eyed lol.
 

keemojung

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Chamber36 said:
Strong eye contact conveys confidence, and also shows you are interested in what she's saying.
So are u saying that i should have eye contact with her during talking until she break it? Isn't it gonna make her feel uneasy?
 

keemojung

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Korrupt said:
You want to stare, but not like a crazy person. Make sure you're RELAXED, especially your eyes (don't be super wide-eyed). Nod as she talks, and switch between looking in her left eye, right eye and at her lips so you don't go cross-eyed lol.
What about look into her eyes, nod as she talk, have a lil smile on the face, and look between her lips and her eye?

Is that convey confidence and sexual feeling enough?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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WaRpEd

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I cant help but to gaze into the eyes of everyone. It's a way of reading people and communicating without words.

Just let it be, stop worrying so much. Your worry is the root of your problem. Your forgetting the main objective of having a date.

HAVE FUN!!! :) :rolleyes:
 
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