"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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eye contact (weird tihng)

Bonafide

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Why is it that, sometime i make eye contact with some girls and I dont feel anything, even though i may be attracted to them...but then sometime I can randomly meet eyes with another female and I get this feeling I dunno what it is but its weird, is that what they call mutual eye contact? does a girl feel that too?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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FirstInstinct

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Sure, it's mutual eye contact. You feel that connection, a spark, and it's like you kinda enter a bubble with only you two in that moment.

Go 3-second rule it before the bubble bursts and you're back in reality.
 

Aragon034

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lol i just got the cheeziest idea.

When this happens, walk right up to them, and say

"Hey, i noticed you looking into my soul, I have to ask, what'd you see?"

Or something along those lines :p
 

guywhoneedshelp

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Bonafide said:
Why is it that, sometime i make eye contact with some girls and I dont feel anything, even though i may be attracted to them...but then sometime I can randomly meet eyes with another female and I get this feeling I dunno what it is but its weird, is that what they call mutual eye contact? does a girl feel that too?
I know what you mean:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=149466
 

mtlwlu

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Cheesy line, but...it may work based on the fact that it will at least start a convo...or make awkward silence. lol
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Metaphysical

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Bonafide said:
Why is it that, sometime i make eye contact with some girls and I dont feel anything, even though i may be attracted to them...but then sometime I can randomly meet eyes with another female and I get this feeling I dunno what it is but its weird, is that what they call mutual eye contact? does a girl feel that too?
yeah it's a connection. if you actually have sex with those types of women who you feel that connection with.. it's incredible. much better than just a hot piece of ass. :yes:
 
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