"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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eye contact question

silkkster

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so this HB 7-8, we work @ our college radio station. we talk alot, got her # a while back, called her a few times, kept getting the ans. machine, she never called back - so i nexted her, but we still talked and what not @ the radio station. so today, we were talking in our staff meeting, and i could tell she was into me (laugh @ my jokes, smile, eye contact..) so i did a little kino on her(we were talking about our schedual and i gently tapped her leg) , as did she

right before the meeting started, we had stopped talking but she looked back - and she Held eye contact, but for an extend period of time(so i did the same thing) ....

any ways... should i give her another chance or just say she had her chance?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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TillTheEndOfTime

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I say give her one last call. Maybe before she wasn't interested, but now she is as her actions may suggest. If you get the same crap again, she's not intereted or playing games. In that case next her for good.
 

catch

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yeah i agree, you need to ask her out and take her somewhere good, fun, and romantic... like your bedroom....
 

Nightspark

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nothing more romantic like the bedroom =)

Yeah go for it and ask her out man... dont leave it to late and all the best

- Nightspark:D
 
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