"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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eye contact question

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silkkster

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so this HB 7-8, we work @ our college radio station. we talk alot, got her # a while back, called her a few times, kept getting the ans. machine, she never called back - so i nexted her, but we still talked and what not @ the radio station. so today, we were talking in our staff meeting, and i could tell she was into me (laugh @ my jokes, smile, eye contact..) so i did a little kino on her(we were talking about our schedual and i gently tapped her leg) , as did she

right before the meeting started, we had stopped talking but she looked back - and she Held eye contact, but for an extend period of time(so i did the same thing) ....

any ways... should i give her another chance or just say she had her chance?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TillTheEndOfTime

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I say give her one last call. Maybe before she wasn't interested, but now she is as her actions may suggest. If you get the same crap again, she's not intereted or playing games. In that case next her for good.
 
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yeah i agree, you need to ask her out and take her somewhere good, fun, and romantic... like your bedroom....
 
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nothing more romantic like the bedroom =)

Yeah go for it and ask her out man... dont leave it to late and all the best

- Nightspark:D
 
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