"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Eye contact question

zack77766

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What if a girl gives you hard eye contact to the point of "***** staring" you? last week we made eye contact and she eventually gave in. today we made eye contact but she just ***** stared me. not sure if she's single but seems like her "bf" is someone who will kick my ass. Other weeklings are approachin her though...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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Stop lookin at her if she's gonna mean stare at ya lol
 

achtungiono

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keep eyecontact while going up to her :yes:

when you reach her you sit down and keep staring at her and you do that game thingy were you're supposed to stare in the other persons eyes until that persons looks away.

Then just psych her out abit,
"you know i never lost at this game"
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"or well, i actually lost once, i was nine"

priceless post btw.
 

Randallpink83

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I would stick my tongue out at her and then give her a ****y smile...

Then i would finger her in class....


lol, but seriously, sounds like she is interested. Unless she is GLARING at you. Don;t you think its about time you approach her?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Randallpink83

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....even if she was glaring though I would still approach...

I'd rather a girl HATE me then have no feelings at all. Hate is very close to Love.
 

DJ Wrangler

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quit waiting around!

I like what randall said, stick your tongue, do something other than just stare! give her more to think about, and BAM! APPROACH! high should be easy picking but i know thats not always the case, build yourself up for the class period then after class stop her in the hallway!
 
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