"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey guys.

Lets say you found this girl, and she eye contacts you more than once, what makes you DJs so sure it means shes interested in you? What if you have some really bad trait, and she keeps observing it curiously. Like someone with green hair, he looks stupid, but Im just looking at him for curiosity. Also, have any of you did/can manage to make a whole conversation beginning with "What time is it?" maybe you can ask her where u got the watch, and that you visit these shops alot,etc. please reply.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Eye contact... EYE CONTACT... as in... EYES. If she's looking at your hair, it isn't quite EYE contact is it?

As for how to tell if she's interested, it's not very difficult. I can't really explain it beyond judging for yourself off of her facial expression/body language. If she has a curious expression, it's probably not a sign of interest; unless she's looking at your crotch. And even then I would doubt it...

Anyways, next time it happens, just grab your balls and go talk to her.
 
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LikRetsam said:
Eye contact... EYE CONTACT... as in... EYES. If she's looking at your hair, it isn't quite EYE contact is it?

As for how to tell if she's interested, it's not very difficult. I can't really explain it beyond judging for yourself off of her facial expression/body language. If she has a curious expression, it's probably not a sign of interest; unless she's looking at your crotch. And even then I would doubt it...

Anyways, next time it happens, just grab your balls and go talk to her.
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thats great advice just grab your balls and talk to her LOL
 
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Keemo, i didn't see you offer anything constructive, so you have no right to call others noobs. Grow a pair. As for the eye contact bit, you miss the point. It doesn't matter if she's interested, what matters is if you are. If you are waiting on a signal of interest to start contact with her, then she has the upper hand long before you even say hi to her. What matters is if you're into this girl or not, and to be into her for just her looks isn't enough. Start talking to her and whatnot and if she seems cool and isn't a total *****, then you can begin to fathom the idea of being into her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You have got to be kidding me. Grab your balls and approach..like they said.
 
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Wtf? Keemo is the original poster, and he called those who took the time to reply to such a pointless post noobs. Someone needs to get they're head checked.
 
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keemo said:
Hey guys.

Lets say you found this girl, and she eye contacts you more than once, what makes you DJs so sure it means shes interested in you? What if you have some really bad trait, and she keeps observing it curiously. Like someone with green hair, he looks stupid, but Im just looking at him for curiosity. Also, have any of you did/can manage to make a whole conversation beginning with "What time is it?" maybe you can ask her where u got the watch, and that you visit these shops alot,etc. please reply.
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You are in the wrong frame of mind... If she is within 40 feet of you she is interested in you. IF you cant get that you dont get "it"
 
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You are in the wrong frame of mind... If she is within 40 feet of you she is interested in you. IF you cant get that you dont get "it"
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Umm...thats pushing it just a little, but i think i get your point.
 
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Erm thanks, just dont use the term "balls" with me, not used to welcoming it ..

Ok, what about the "What time it is" approach?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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dude..did you read the bible?
 
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keemo said:
Hey guys.

Lets say you found this girl, and she eye contacts you more than once, what makes you DJs so sure it means shes interested in you? What if you have some really bad trait, and she keeps observing it curiously. Like someone with green hair, he looks stupid, but Im just looking at him for curiosity. Also, have any of you did/can manage to make a whole conversation beginning with "What time is it?" maybe you can ask her where u got the watch, and that you visit these shops alot,etc. please reply.
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Again with the pointless mocking, try doing something constructive.
 
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