"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Eye contact in the street. (Attractiveness)

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Originally posted in another thread, but I think it deserves its own discussion point.
dvjackson said:
It isn't always easy to see your own physical attractiveness but you can gauge how much presence you have, which is more valuable
Look at how much attention people give you compared to other men around you, how easy or difficult it is for you to get the attention of a stranger, how long people hold eye contact with you, etc.
Depends on the other persons level of self-confidence.
I often try to hold eye contact with as many people as possible while I'm walking around in public. You would be surprised how many people cant hold it for 3 seconds.

most will realise they've been caught looking and avert their gaze. (here you cant tell if a chick digs you because her eyes will lock onto something behind you. This is her looking at you through her peripheral vision).

Guys hold E-C 3seconds or more- they want to fight (or they are gay and wanna fvck you). Locking eyes with another male is up there as a challenge.

Girls hold E-C 3 seconds or more- they SERIOUSLY want to fvck. (Most lack the self confidence to lock eyes here.)

Wonder why girls cant hold eye contact due to lack of self confidence?

MAKEUP.
The Biggest lie that women have is makeup. The thing is, theyre only lying to themselves. They NEED that foundation, that blusher and all that mascara and eye shadow, nail varnish etc. etc. etc. in order to leave the house!!!



So when they catch eye contact with someone they find attractive - the lie on their face crumbles on the inside, they start to doubt their own looks (because lets be honest, thats all they have). And that, gentlemen is the female AFC. - There are more of these around than you would believe.

Lets not forget, however, that walking down the street - the women / girls will have noticed you from far, far away - so that little bit of eye contact you do get was DELIBERATE, so flash them your winning million dollar smile and say "Hi, I'm[...]".:up:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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As a general rule I agree but not sure exactly when you talk about guys keeping eye contact for more than 3 seconds, are we talking about crossing eyes while walking in opposite directions of a street or some stranger with which you're interacting?
 

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I hate it when guys try to challenge you by holding eye contact and you can't be arsed to do it.

I'm sure all of you have had some random guy trying to stare at you, and when you catch them they try to compete with you who can keep eye contact the longest.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
As a general rule I agree but not sure exactly when you talk about guys keeping eye contact for more than 3 seconds, are we talking about crossing eyes while walking in opposite directions of a street or some stranger with which you're interacting?
crossing eyes in the street - If you're interacting with someone, then its different - just do eye contact as you would normally.:)
 

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I was on my motorcycle last weekend and at a red light a hot little hispanic chick was crossing in front of me to get to the other corner. She held that stare the whole time she crossed, and I thought to myself, fück this, I'm not breaking EC, let's see what happens. And face exposure is minimal in a full faced helmet, yet she still held it for a long time. It's quite a fun game to play. With men, I don't bother unless you're about to throw it down. It sort of progresses into a "what the fück are YOU lookin at?" situation lol.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sounds fun but sustained eye contact down here where I live can get you hurt. Girls tend not too look into the eyes for too long unless they are teenagers and don't know any better. Although they will.

I really want to move to the suburbs.
 

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Hydrak said:
I hate it when guys try to challenge you by holding eye contact and you can't be arsed to do it.

I'm sure all of you have had some random guy trying to stare at you, and when you catch them they try to compete with you who can keep eye contact the longest.
disarm them with a casual nod or smile
 

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foreverAFC said:
disarm them with a casual nod or smile
This. At my gym I always nod/smile or wave/smile when I walk past and meet eyes with someone (girl or guy).
 
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