icequake_00
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Excellent excellent post PS. Keep it up as it stands as inspiration for us newbies.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
eye contact game
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
WestCoaster
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Really good post
I didn't get through all three pages here because the initial post is really all one needs. It's priceless.
I'm sort of the hesitant guy Player mentions in his post and I think working on the eye contact game can help one in being more aggressive.
The older I get the more I lean to the quit-goofing-around and let's get down to business mode. Frankly, I'm tired of the internet dating, the cat-and-mouse game, the he said/she said, all the crap. I'm too old for this sh-t and have a career and interests to be concerned with, not worrying about the whole "game" of love.
I'm gonna try and work on this eye contact game. These are the kind of posts that are really helpful, not the ones trying to get into a woman's psyche because the woman's psyche is impossible to decipher!
Thanks Player!
I didn't get through all three pages here because the initial post is really all one needs. It's priceless.
I'm sort of the hesitant guy Player mentions in his post and I think working on the eye contact game can help one in being more aggressive.
The older I get the more I lean to the quit-goofing-around and let's get down to business mode. Frankly, I'm tired of the internet dating, the cat-and-mouse game, the he said/she said, all the crap. I'm too old for this sh-t and have a career and interests to be concerned with, not worrying about the whole "game" of love.
I'm gonna try and work on this eye contact game. These are the kind of posts that are really helpful, not the ones trying to get into a woman's psyche because the woman's psyche is impossible to decipher!
Thanks Player!
WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
Re: Really good post
1-Women are completely insane except on Monday & Wednesday.
2-Friday and Sunday they are patially rational.
3-The first two rules only apply on Tuesday, Thursday and alternating weekends.
See? It's easy!
Now WC you know understanding a woman's mind is easy! Just remember these three simple rules:
1-Women are completely insane except on Monday & Wednesday.
2-Friday and Sunday they are patially rational.
3-The first two rules only apply on Tuesday, Thursday and alternating weekends.
See? It's easy!
WestCoaster
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Uh ...
... now I'm more confused than before.
I think I'll just become a monk.
... now I'm more confused than before.
I think I'll just become a monk.
TurboLover
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This post is GOLDEN. Thank you wise ones. *bows forward and slowly walks backwards away from the computer*
This post is GOLDEN. Thank you wise ones. *bows forward and slowly walks backwards away from the computer*
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Just read Gunwitch again. He has some solid advice on breakups and the like.
Some of his stuff is a bit harsh, but can't say I disagree with much.
The only thing is about sexual state. I think it is important, but you must be extremely careful to not come off as a needy, horny guy. There is a line that must not be crossed.
Some of his stuff is a bit harsh, but can't say I disagree with much.
The only thing is about sexual state. I think it is important, but you must be extremely careful to not come off as a needy, horny guy. There is a line that must not be crossed.
i know it's a little late to reply on this post... but Player_Supreme, man, you are my personal god!
Before I read your text I thought that it was wrong to keep eye contact until she looks away. I thought that, when they look at you, you’ve got to look for about 5 seconds and the look away, or else it’ll become scary/freaky for them.
But then I tried your tips… un-be-****in-lievable! It works like a charm. (of course you have to be “chosen” before it works) but it’s even more effective then I could’ve imagined!
Bedroom eyes/voice and eye contact are thé cards that you have to play in order to score.
Btw. It’s also worth reading the Gunwitch Method (http://gunwitch.fastseduction.com)
Grtzzz, your humble servant
Before I read your text I thought that it was wrong to keep eye contact until she looks away. I thought that, when they look at you, you’ve got to look for about 5 seconds and the look away, or else it’ll become scary/freaky for them.
But then I tried your tips… un-be-****in-lievable! It works like a charm. (of course you have to be “chosen” before it works) but it’s even more effective then I could’ve imagined!
Bedroom eyes/voice and eye contact are thé cards that you have to play in order to score.
Btw. It’s also worth reading the Gunwitch Method (http://gunwitch.fastseduction.com)
Grtzzz, your humble servant
Black Casanova
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Those of you that are talking about being "chosen"
how do you know when yo're chosen without using eye contact beforehand?
how do you know when yo're chosen without using eye contact beforehand?
NorPacWolf
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Yes, you will have to make eye contact to recognize that someone else is trying to make eye contact with you. Simple, isn't it?