“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Eye contact, come on, I am sooo confused!?

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OKay, I need the non readers digest version here. I have heard that your not supposed to let a woman know your looking at her, but, a post in here says to walk the mall and stare your nuts off.

I am slowly putting it together but I need some advice to keep me on the right track. Do you stare or not, and when ??
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Where did you ever read that you aren't suppose to let a women know you are looking at her?

There's a difference between staring a women down and making eye contact with her. You want to make eye contact with her and not break away, and if you feel like approaching do it as quickly as possible after making eye contact. Otherwise you come off as creepy.
 
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this is what happens when you read too much too fast and then try to put pieces of knowledge together..

i think what confuses you is this.

eye contact is good. there are all kinds of theories here, but in general EC is good.

But when you're lets say sitting in a bar, you're not supposed to sit there staring at a girl for half an hour. Thats just creepy and stalkerish. I think thats where you get your "not supposed to see you looking" thing.

In general, looking at a girl for a long time is bad regardless. You see her, make eye contact, and boom, you go for it.

there are different ways to do this anyways, just keep reading and absorbing.
 
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It has been a loooong time from where I got this info from but I think it has something to do with when your interested in a woman, at say a bar, you dont want her to catch you looking at her because then she thinks she has you, as in "yup scratch another loser on the desires me post".

Okay, honestly I never followed it because I have been in LTR for 25 years stright, but, now I am single and the games are just beginning.

Okay, I get the bar deal, but, what about around the office, and at friends places where I definatly just want to check the merchandise, show I am alpha but not too interested in closing?

Yea, yea, I am sure i know this one, but, I like looking at pvssy and thinking there wet for me, lol.
 
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