"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So I was supposed to chill with some chick tonight. She had very high interest in me, even told me over the phone she wants me in her..

She sends me a text today saying "hey, __ you're really hot but i don't think it's a good idea we hang out.. your ex is in my sorority and i think she may still like you"

I played it off, told her okay, maybe some other time.. not a big deal.

BUT, me being the stupid **** i am i text my ex and say "hey, whatever i do is my damn business, stay out of it."

I don't think my ex said anything to her, but now I have to explain to her why I said this. I have no idea what to say.. for the record i don't like her anymore i just don't want to seem like a *****/jackass to her friends (potential targets).

anyways, stupid thread, stupid decision but if anyone has any ideas let me know
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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blackhatter said:
So I was supposed to chill with some chick tonight. She had very high interest in me, even told me over the phone she wants me in her..

She sends me a text today saying "hey, __ you're really hot but i don't think it's a good idea we hang out.. your ex is in my sorority and i think she may still like you"

I played it off, told her okay, maybe some other time.. not a big deal.

BUT, me being the stupid **** i am i text my ex and say "hey, whatever i do is my damn business, stay out of it."

I don't think my ex said anything to her, but now I have to explain to her why I said this. I have no idea what to say.. for the record i don't like her anymore i just don't want to seem like a *****/jackass to her friends (potential targets).

anyways, stupid thread, stupid decision but if anyone has any ideas let me know
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Alright. This may work. Confront your ex in person, and tell her you are so sorry for the text the other day, you mean to send it to a male friend of yours that's name is right under hers.

That should get you out of your bind...HOWEVER

I try not to target my ex's friends. As much as you may not realize it...her friends will talk to her about you. IT WILL HAPPEN NO MATTER WHAT THEY SAY. You're pretty much fvcked with them from the get go...
 
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Alright. This may work. Confront your ex in person, and tell her you are so sorry for the text the other day, you mean to send it to a male friend of yours that's name is right under hers.

That should get you out of your bind...HOWEVER

I try not to target my ex's friends. As much as you may not realize it...her friends will talk to her about you. IT WILL HAPPEN NO MATTER WHAT THEY SAY. You're pretty much fvcked with them from the get go...
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No go.. I used her name in the text message. I don't really want to say sorry to this girl. She screwed me in our relationship, so I feel no need to apologize for anything.

I think I'm just going to keep it real. When she calls tomorrow I'm just going to tell her that I heard something that may or may not be true, but either way she needs to keep out of my business with other women.
 
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who cares about the ex. what exactly did you tell the other girl when she brought it up?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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No go.. I used her name in the text message. I don't really want to say sorry to this girl. She screwed me in our relationship, so I feel no need to apologize for anything.

I think I'm just going to keep it real. When she calls tomorrow I'm just going to tell her that I heard something that may or may not be true, but either way she needs to keep out of my business with other women.
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Lol...she views it as her business with HER friends...Good luck winning that battle.
 
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