"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Extremely shy guys, and women of easy virtue

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I attended a very small arts college, and graduated in February. Everyone from my old class (all 22 of us) still hang out regularly (mostly in smaller groups).

There's one girl who has slept with about a third of the guys in the class. Maybe she has a short attention span for guys, or maybe she subconsciously gets a kick out of turning guys against each other.

I think my 'turn' is coming up soon. Should I go for it? On the one hand, "bro's before ho's", but on the other hand, I haven't been laid in over a year.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Warrior74

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LOL. in before....

... bang her....why not.
... no shes a whoor, have some self respect
... bang her but don't fall in love or spend time with her. (pump n dump)
... use your dj skills to make her yours
... go out and sarge other girls

I'm sure this thread will go along those lines buddy. Do what ever the hell you really want and learn something from it and post your honest results here.
 
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Warrior74 said:
LOL. in before....

... bang her....why not.
... no shes a whoor, have some self respect
... bang her but don't fall in love or spend time with her. (pump n dump)
... use your dj skills to make her yours
... go out and sarge other girls

I'm sure this thread will go along those lines buddy. Do what ever the hell you really want and learn something from it and post your honest results here.
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Heh. As I ran down your list, I thought to myself, "Yes...no...too late (already spent a lot of time with her)...yes...maybe later". Thanks for your efficient reply!
 
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Who even has to think about this kind of stuff.

easy, no strings attached sex! duh!

Why would you spend time on a site about attracting women if you don't want to fvck them?

You may be gay.
 
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Warrior74 said:
LOL. in before....

X bang her....why not.
... no shes a whoor, have some self respect
X bang her but don't fall in love or spend time with her. (pump n dump)
... use your dj skills to make her yours
... go out and sarge other girls

I'm sure this thread will go along those lines buddy. Do what ever the hell you really want and learn something from it and post your honest results here.
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My choices
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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wolf116 said:
Who even has to think about this kind of stuff.

easy, no strings attached sex! duh!

Why would you spend time on a site about attracting women if you don't want to fvck them?

You may be gay.
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I appreciate your bluntness. (Is that an AFC thing to say?) Thing is, her past victims all kind of resent each other now. I just can't figure out if my friendship with those guys, which will help me in my career for decades to come, is worth more to me than a one- or two- or three-night stand.

I'm logging off now, I'll be back in a week with a progress report.
 
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Why are you worried about the other guys? I thought it was well known that she sleeps with everybody? Did some of them get attached?
 
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Beggars can't be chosers. So, get what you can.

Or...

Be the man and get women. Attract them by being yourself naturally and not looking for some sort of outcome. Stop letting people have power over you and chose to take control of your own destiny.

Oh...

And screw this girl too while you're at it.
 
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Bang her just for the heck of it unless she's ugly or stinks. at the end of life, people regret what they didn't do, not what they did.
 
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