Warboss Alex
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If you're 100lbs.Bloke said:For bulking I need 210 grams of protein a day.
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
If you're 100lbs.Bloke said:For bulking I need 210 grams of protein a day.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Wrong again.Warboss Alex said:If you're 100lbs.
Whatever works for you, my friend. If those numbers do, more power to you.The_Lifter said:Wrong again.
For naturals:
1g/lb while bulking
1.5g/lb while cutting.
End of discussion.
The_Lifter said:Wrong again.
For naturals:
1g/lb while bulking
1.5g/lb while cutting.
End of discussion.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I know and work with a lot of talented BB’ers and PL’ers and every SUCCESSFUL one will tell you the body needs EXTREME protein intake levels if you are to ever do well lifting and adding mass. Of course there are plenty of buck-sixty pound guys out there that will quote studies telling you that it is not needed.
I am constantly bombarded with posts from under 200 lb guys saying things like “I heard that the body can only assimilate 30-35 grams at a time” or the super MORONIC statement that is even more frequently heard “I don’t want to “waste” protein”. Oh really? It’s OK to drive to the gym, workout 2-6 days a week, spend countless hours lifting and prepping meals and spending God knows how much a month on mostly USELESS supplements (there are great ones, most guys buy the flashy crap ones though because of the marketing hype), and then after all that time, money and effort, they “are worried about “wasting” a bit of protein? Please, get real.
You need to understand that before a single gram of protein will be used for growth, first overall metabolic needs must be attended to. Then you need to take in to account all the micro-trauma that heavy training creates. Your body must use the ingested protein to first just synthesize protein just to heal what was damaged and get you back to square one before any additional mass will be accrued.
Now comes the big kicker that almost everyone here reading this is CLUELESS about—how little actual protein content is in the food you eat. When many see a recommendation that a 200 lb guy trying to add mass should get 375-400 grams of protein a day many flip-out. That is nuts! No one could use or possibly have a need for that much protein---WRONG! Just because 8 ounces of steak with fat has about 60 grams of protein, the average guy assumes that 400 grams of actual protein is a HUGE amount. IT IS NOT! 8 ounces of steak is mostly water and other constituents that do NOT count as the protein count.
But instead of taking my word for it, you do the math and find out how much ACTUAL PROTEIN is in an amount you would consider HUGE, and then think about what your overall bodyweight is and how tore-up a hard workout makes you feel.
http://www.sciencelab.com/data/conversions/weight.shtml
Did you do the math? What do you think now?
Iron Addict
Oh yes! But isn't a similar ignorance is conveyed by asinine assumptions like 'limited experience?' Thanks for that, truly made my day!manuva said:I love it when people say something like 'end of discussion' when referring to the human body. The confidence belies the ignorance.
When dealing with the human body, the very first thing you have to remember is that everybody's body is different and will respond differently. Certainly there are guidelines when it comes to health and fitness, but anyone who believes there are hard and fast rules is demonstrating their limited experience.
No worries. I am a nice guy after all.The_Lifter said:Thanks for that, truly made my day!
I'm not suggesting that it does differ that much, I'm simply saying you cannot possibly take a topic with so many variables such as nutritional protein requirements and make an "end of story" point.Human physiology doesn't differ *that* much from person to person.
First of all, I don't see where I've run mouth anywhere. If my reasonable discussion points are too much for you to take then you really shouldn't be participating in discussion.I don't know if you've ever heard of pubmed or medline, but seriously, go and read some studies before you run mouth.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Warboss Alex said:bump for The_Lifter who seems to have missed or ignored my post
NEVER take 80 grams of protein in one sitting. Always break it up into meals. Try not to take more than 60 grams of protein in one sitting. Even that is pushing it. And don't take too much protein powder. Too much protein powder is not good for you. Dont' know the reasons behind it, but my buddy who is a nutritional science major told me thisShezz said:When your down at the gym, grab a protein shake and a protein bar - thats around 80g of protein right there!
Sarge On...
You don't know the reasons for it, yet listen to them blindly. Don't people quesiton anything anymore? "I won't do this because a friend of a friend of such and such heard two guys in a pub saying that.."Wiesman44 said:Dont' know the reasons behind it, but my buddy who is a nutritional science major told me this
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.