Trading one set of misguided ideas about women for another.
Before guys get into the Community, the typical guy has beliefs about women such as:
•Women are special, beautiful creatures.
•Women need to be saved and protected.
•Women need to be loved and nurtured.
•You need to make women feel special.
•Women need to be wined and dined and romanced.
•Women want nice guys.
•Women don’t like sex.
A little too naive and romantic in other words. Then they get into the Community and before long they’ve been exposed to ideas like:
•Women are flaky and unreliable.
•Women are emotional and illogical.
•Women only live in the emotion of the moment, do what feels good at the time, and justify their actions to themselves after the fact.
•Women are manipulative and use guys for free drinks and dinners.
•Women are fickle and have short attention spans.
•Women are self-centered and self-interested.
•Women primarily go to clubs for attention and validation from men.
•Women constantly test men, try to devalue them, and try to make them jump through hoops.
•Women try to make men suck up to them and put them on a pedestal.
•Women think their pussies are made of gold and sell them to the highest bidder.
•Women don’t know what they really want.
•Women are confused and hypocritical. They’ll profess to dislike whorish behavior then blow a guy in a bathroom that night.
•Women are programmed to want to get knocked up by an Alpha Male then ensnare an unwitting Beta Male into raising the child for her.
•Women will cheat on their partners coldly and unemotionally.
•Women are slaves to how their friends and society sees them. They want to sleep around, but have to be discrete about it.
•Society’s expectations have given women all kinds of weird hang ups up about sex and hooking up. Their minds are full of strange rationalizations and justifications.
•Women aren’t happy for long in a relationship and you have to constantly keep them on their toes and off-balance to stay with them.
•Women are powerless to resist the right type of guy. Even if they’re married, they’ll get sucked along.
•Women are easily manipulated by simple magic tricks and talk of new agey topics.
I’m not saying there’s no truth at all in these statements, of course there’s some truth's in everything. These statements do describe some women, or the way some women act in certain circumstances. But taken as a whole, you gotta admit this set of beliefs is pretty negative, misogynistic even. Just as all women aren’t special creatures that need to be rescued, they aren’t all fickle, emotional, and selfish either. The truth is probably somewhere in the middle, and it depends on the girl. Some girls are really normal and cool and easy to talk to.
Use your own judgement not broad stroke generalizations.
Before guys get into the Community, the typical guy has beliefs about women such as:
•Women are special, beautiful creatures.
•Women need to be saved and protected.
•Women need to be loved and nurtured.
•You need to make women feel special.
•Women need to be wined and dined and romanced.
•Women want nice guys.
•Women don’t like sex.
A little too naive and romantic in other words. Then they get into the Community and before long they’ve been exposed to ideas like:
•Women are flaky and unreliable.
•Women are emotional and illogical.
•Women only live in the emotion of the moment, do what feels good at the time, and justify their actions to themselves after the fact.
•Women are manipulative and use guys for free drinks and dinners.
•Women are fickle and have short attention spans.
•Women are self-centered and self-interested.
•Women primarily go to clubs for attention and validation from men.
•Women constantly test men, try to devalue them, and try to make them jump through hoops.
•Women try to make men suck up to them and put them on a pedestal.
•Women think their pussies are made of gold and sell them to the highest bidder.
•Women don’t know what they really want.
•Women are confused and hypocritical. They’ll profess to dislike whorish behavior then blow a guy in a bathroom that night.
•Women are programmed to want to get knocked up by an Alpha Male then ensnare an unwitting Beta Male into raising the child for her.
•Women will cheat on their partners coldly and unemotionally.
•Women are slaves to how their friends and society sees them. They want to sleep around, but have to be discrete about it.
•Society’s expectations have given women all kinds of weird hang ups up about sex and hooking up. Their minds are full of strange rationalizations and justifications.
•Women aren’t happy for long in a relationship and you have to constantly keep them on their toes and off-balance to stay with them.
•Women are powerless to resist the right type of guy. Even if they’re married, they’ll get sucked along.
•Women are easily manipulated by simple magic tricks and talk of new agey topics.
I’m not saying there’s no truth at all in these statements, of course there’s some truth's in everything. These statements do describe some women, or the way some women act in certain circumstances. But taken as a whole, you gotta admit this set of beliefs is pretty negative, misogynistic even. Just as all women aren’t special creatures that need to be rescued, they aren’t all fickle, emotional, and selfish either. The truth is probably somewhere in the middle, and it depends on the girl. Some girls are really normal and cool and easy to talk to.
Use your own judgement not broad stroke generalizations.
