"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ex's best friend calls! What's behind all this?

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I broke up with my ex over a month ago and have never heard from her since. We don’t have friends in common.

My ex’s best friend, who I met one time, six months ago, for maybe an hour, and NEVER had a conversation with before; called me on the 4th of July weekend. I found it weird and didn’t pick up. Then she called again on Monday asking me to help her with her workouts (I’m a personal trainer). She said she’s reached a plateau and would like to try some new exercises. I said I could probably help her on Sunday for an hour or so.

I honestly don’t know if this girl wants something else from me or if she is just trying to find out stuff about me to relate it to my ex. My ex has a new guy now (reason she never called again) and don’t think she would be interested in finding out stuff about me.

In anycase, this would have been a great opportunity to hit on her friend and get even…but my ex once mentioned her friend’s got some VD. Won’t even try this option….

I’m not planning to talk about my ex with this girl, nor I will be an open book (NEVER AGAIN)…

If my ex is behind all this and they are both up to something…
What could she actually get from all this??? A friend suggested she no longer has me on her lap and is now trying to see what I’m up to… but I’m not planning to hint her best friend on anything and if she brings the subject I’ll say we came to workout, that’s all.

ANY DIFFERENT VIEWS??

charolastra
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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yeah, play around and give her contradictory information.
 
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Get HONEST...

the entire track of your post is about gamesmanship. What do YOU want? What is RIGHT for YOU? Six months out and you are still wondering. Now that's human nature but realize that to worry about the gamesmanship is NOT moving on and doing what's RIGHT for you. In this situation, simply do what's right for you. What's REALLY right and not's what's right in the context of this past relationship.


Regards

Mike
 
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Originally posted by persistent exaction
Get HONEST...

the entire track of your post is about gamesmanship. What do YOU want? What is RIGHT for YOU? Six months out and you are still wondering. Now that's human nature but realize that to worry about the gamesmanship is NOT moving on and doing what's RIGHT for you. In this situation, simply do what's right for you. What's REALLY right and not's what's right in the context of this past relationship.


Regards

Mike
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Indeed.

Stop reading into sh!t and worrying about it. If you want to chase this skank, then do it. But she's got VD, so my guess is you don't want to. In which case, just give her some advice and be friendly.
 
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Well you have decided you aren't having sex with her because of the VD. So just avoid the issue - don't call her back. If she ever gets ahold of you tell her you have enough clients.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Are you sure she has a VD? I'm just saying maybe the ex said that so you wouldn't think of banging her while you two were together. Anyway, help her out if you want to, just don't be a pawn in someone's game...
 
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darth yoda!

You may be right! she may not have a VD after all... In any case, I will play it by ear on Sunday...

The only thing I can do is not to talk about anything else, other than "fitness" with this girl...and make sure I look happy and relaxed.

We'll see what happens!

charolastra
 
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