"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why is it that ex g/f's feel the need to keep in contact long after everything is over and done with. With my two latest, they fell in love w/ me hard, and I hurt them even harder (not intentionally). But yet they make regular contact with me, send me emails, IM's, just to say Hi, how are you doing kinda thing.

It annoys me. It was great the time that we spent together but its over and time to move on. How can I tell them to stop trying to keep their grubby paws out of my life without being rude. Any got any suggestions?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Tell them you are currently in a relationship!!
 
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stop answering their phone calls...or better yet have a female answer when your ex calls and cuss her out.
 
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