"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ex's and contact

MacAvoy

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Why is it that ex g/f's feel the need to keep in contact long after everything is over and done with. With my two latest, they fell in love w/ me hard, and I hurt them even harder (not intentionally). But yet they make regular contact with me, send me emails, IM's, just to say Hi, how are you doing kinda thing.

It annoys me. It was great the time that we spent together but its over and time to move on. How can I tell them to stop trying to keep their grubby paws out of my life without being rude. Any got any suggestions?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Tell them you are currently in a relationship!!
 

Skel

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stop answering their phone calls...or better yet have a female answer when your ex calls and cuss her out.
 
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