"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Expose yourself to fearful situations

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This is the best and quickest way to build confidence in yourself and improve your chances with attractive women.

Being tall and or handsome and or intelligent is NOT a guarantee you will be confident around attractive women.

Some examples of leaving your comfort zone to build confidence.

Confronting somebody who wronged you
Public Speaking
Bungee jumping
Skydiving
Get in a caged fight
Traveling in a foreign country by yourself
Become a cop, Corrections officer, fireman or join the miliatary


The main goal is to be successful with ATTRACTIVE looking women, not hogs.

In dating attractive women, IT WILL bring challenges.

What do I mean by challenges?

I am mostly talking about challenges from other men.

Intimidating stares from envious men
AMOG's
Men disrespecting you or your girl

EXPECT THIS TO HAPPEN!!

However, if you are confident in your ability to CONTROL and HANDLE FEAR, things will be fine.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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