Exploring Sexuality - Whats the Best Way?

[Snoobs]

Aiight, I posted back here a number of months ago about how I was 27 and have never had a girlfriend or sex, etc. Well not much has changed except now I know that I have some depression to deal with along with ADD (which means that some vocal cues and body language I don't notice).

So everything is getting better. I DJ and thats going better, I meet girls at the clubs maybe one new girl every night that I DJ. I get about one number a month . . . if that.

But yo, my point is that I am at my sexual peak and i need some trim. Is learning the ways of sex ok with a *****? Internally, i feel that I want something based on love, but at the same time, I feel its just sex and I would just assume have it one way or the other than to not. . .

My DJ skills are getting better (both Don Juan and Disc Jockey) right now I would say that the most important thing that i need to work on is image. The last pair of shoes that I got was a year ago. etc.

But, whats the best way when in a situation that could advance sexually to let the woman know that you are inexperienced, yet not scare her off and/or the positives and negatives of the hoe route . . .

thanks, snoobs

 

[Snoobs]

so

so what do you think, whats the best way to become a good lover?

 

[DeathDealer]

Take your focus off the performing the sex part, and focus more on wanting to have sex part.

When I was a virgin and I hit it, the only thing I said that almost gave it away was "Is it in?" - She may suspect it or question it.. don't admit anything.

Virginity is no big deal dudes.

 

[Don_Joffe]

You got AFC written all over yourself. You say your skills are improving yet your shoes havent been purchased for over a year now? I suggest you study the bible and learn it before posting again. Yes, Im being harsh, but by me being harsh im going to encourage you to better yourself. Dont let her know you are inexperienced at all, make it KNOWN that you do it all the time, a good way to practice is to get a "f8ck-buddy" , a girl wants to sleep with a confident man that can be the alpha and knows what he is doing, if you hint to her you dont know dont expect many late nights.

 

[Blackgame]

number 1 the only way to get good at sex is to have sex
number 2 don't tell you make yourself sound pussish when you do
number 3 read gunwitch it is the fastest way to get laid and
get some experence

 

[alphawolfx]

Glad to hear about your progress in life, keep going

But yo, my point is that I am at my sexual peak and i need some trim. Is learning the ways of sex ok with a *****? Internally, i feel that I want something based on love, but at the same time, I feel its just sex and I would just assume have it one way or the other than to not. . .

Go ahead and take advice from this board at your discretion, but remember this:

YOU ARE A GROWN MAN

don't ask anyone if it's okay for you to f.uck a w.hore... if you want to, do it, if not, don't

just don't get arrested if you do
and don't feel bad if you don't do it

it's YOUR LIFE - YOU do what YOU feel is right

 

[izza]

Why all the frontin'?

Why do so many people around here tell you to act like something you're not?

Why pretend in any serious way that you've had sex before, or that you get some all the time?

Learn how to laugh about it, learn to mock yourself about your inexperience - if you're laughing about it she will too.

Learn to be confident and honest at the same time - admit when you have no idea what you're doing, laugh about it. Or if you don't want to tell her you're a virgin, lie about it jokingly. You'll be charming.

I'm not worried about you, my friend. It sounds like you're on the right path.

Izza