I wondering the best way to explain all this on a first date, as I've seen a pattern developing.
At 27, I have a well-paying job, and could easily move out and support myself at any time, as I did in the last city I lived in. For now, I -choose- to stay home because I save up money much faster. In my own mind, this could be for a downpayment on a house, tuition for grad school, or a nest egg should I decide to take a break from work and travel. I don't see the need to flush away thousands of dollars on rent for a hair more independence, and at home everyone gets along fine and helps each other out.
My job is programming, and with otherwise good C/F and number closing ability, I can still see interest drop immediately when I reveal my profession, presumably because of the stereotype. (not undeserved from many programmers I've met) I hardly fit it, however, being an excellent musician in town, getting plenty of gym time in and plenty of outdoor activity (except in winter).
Any suggestions?
At 27, I have a well-paying job, and could easily move out and support myself at any time, as I did in the last city I lived in. For now, I -choose- to stay home because I save up money much faster. In my own mind, this could be for a downpayment on a house, tuition for grad school, or a nest egg should I decide to take a break from work and travel. I don't see the need to flush away thousands of dollars on rent for a hair more independence, and at home everyone gets along fine and helps each other out.
My job is programming, and with otherwise good C/F and number closing ability, I can still see interest drop immediately when I reveal my profession, presumably because of the stereotype. (not undeserved from many programmers I've met) I hardly fit it, however, being an excellent musician in town, getting plenty of gym time in and plenty of outdoor activity (except in winter).
Any suggestions?