Explain why it seems every girl has an abusive bf in her past?

[RichardTheFrog]

Seems like almost every girl I talk to, when I ask about her last relationship, she tells me about some abusive ex. He may or may not have been good looking, rich, etc.

But this is what I hear like 95% of the time.

Any explanation?

 

[logicallefty]

OP, what you say is true. I believe it happens for one or more of several reasons, maybe even all at once:

- An ex caught her cheating, dumped her, put his foot down on her major BS, called her out on some major shlt, or otherwise did something to her that “abused” her ego which is mental abuse to her that she then stretches it/calls it/implies that it was physical

- She says it to get attention

- She says it To try and get her new man to want to beat the ex’s azz which gives her her drama fix and gets her cooter wet

- She just lies to see how gullible the new guy is

- The ex had enough of her shlt and really beat her, or, he was a looser who did it for no good reason

 

[djthiago1]

Most of them are probably lying and just simply got dumped by some guy who couldn't stand them.

 

[skinnyguy]

Most of them are probably lying and just simply got dumped by some guy who couldn't stand them.

LOL. This is so true. She probably abused the guy.

In general, women want bad boys. If a guy is nice to them they will next them for being a beta chump.

 

[djthiago1]

My ex is proof of this. Said most of her exs were abusers, at the end she nearly drove me crazy and is now telling our mutual friends i abused her.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Yea she probably was lying, huh?

Damn.

 

[Glassguy]

Actions > words

 

[RichardTheFrog]

It's interesting that they thrive on attention. The MGTOW guys say that eventually they become indifferent to females. They don't hate them. They pretend they don't exist.

Me, on the other hand, am willing to give them attention if that's what they want. Not obsessive stalking attention... Just normal amounts.

I just have to figure a way to make it work.