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Explain to me the reason(s) girls that recycle boyfriends

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Does anyone know a girl or girls that recycle boyfriends? What I mean is like they have this circle of guys they've dated and they ONLY date guys within that circle. They will "be seeing" one for a few weeks or a month, nothing official, but then they'll make it official and two weeks later they've broken up and move on to the next one within that circle. It's never anyone new, it always is a guy they've dated previously or whatever. Is there any way to break into this circle and become one of those guys? Is it too much trouble because you know you'll only be kept around for a month or two but know you'll get another turn when you revolve back around?lol Are these girls attention wh0res or what do you call them?
 

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Good question. It's called the "9 0 210." It's the incestuous social circle carusel.

I really don't know for sure why women do this.

My guess is that there is fair amount of anti-sl&t defense involved. If she sleeps with random guys from bars and clubs, she's a sl$t, but with social circle guys, it's considered "dating."

Even though it's a social circle hookup, it will either be considered "dating.". Or if it ends, it will be viewed as, "the relationship didn't work out" not "We just F-ed a few times and left it at that."

So she gets to sort of ride the carusel, but with safe people she knows AND most of all, it gets a "relationship" cover, even if it only lasts a week lol.

Kind of like Ta y lor S w ift. She can hook up with lots of guys, but since they are all in the celebrity social circle, it is spun as, "She's dating this one and that one, but she just hasn't found the right relationship yet."

I think guys are partially to blame here too. In a social circle, everbody knows who is "dating" whom. So once word gets out that girl A is going to break up with Guy B (after two weeks lol), Guy C is ready to pounce on that puzzy because he knows that Girl A will have a rebound hookup to validate herself and make herself feel better after the "breakup." Guys are vultures that way. After a few hookups, Guy C will be her new relationship partner, and the cycle repeats.
 

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Girls love sex. Their friends would judge them if they bang some random guy. Solution is to bang someone you sort of know.

This happens a lot with rich girls, who dont want to be seen mixing with(to put this harshly) the dregs of society. The only way you can be sure is to hook up with your friends or guys you know and are introduced to. I went to private school and there is a network where people know each other and it's all rather exclusive and "he shoots with Ralph" or "he played rugby with Tom"...haters will always hate but it's just how it is.

Hence why I love social circle game, get in with the right people and you can bang 4-5 girls easily.
 

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Mike32ct said:
Good question. It's called the "9 0 210." It's the incestuous social circle carusel.

I really don't know for sure why women do this.

To feel loved and desired.

My guess is that there is fair amount of anti-sl&t defense involved. If she sleeps with random guys from bars and clubs, she's a sl$t, but with social circle guys, it's considered "dating."

True.

Even though it's a social circle hookup, it will either be considered "dating.". Or if it ends, it will be viewed as, "the relationship didn't work out" not "We just F-ed a few times and left it at that."

Never trust a woman to tell the truth.

So she gets to sort of ride the carusel, but with safe people she knows AND most of all, it gets a "relationship" cover, even if it only lasts a week lol.

Guess who gives it the relationship cover?

Kind of like Ta y lor S w ift. She can hook up with lots of guys, but since they are all in the celebrity social circle, it is spun as, "She's dating this one and that one, but she just hasn't found the right relationship yet."

If I dated Taylor Swift and broke up with her, I wonder how that song would go. Then again, I'm black, and I wonder if she ever had a black man.

I think guys are partially to blame here too. In a social circle, everybody knows who is "dating" whom. So once word gets out that girl A is going to break up with Guy B (after two weeks lol), Guy C is ready to pounce on that puzzy because he knows that Girl A will have a rebound hookup to validate herself and make herself feel better after the "breakup." Guys are vultures that way. After a few hookups, Guy C will be her new relationship partner, and the cycle repeats.

Well put.
Read betwe- You know what to do.
 

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Summary:

1. Girl A and Guy B are attracted and have a drunken hookup one night after some C oors or Bud light beer in a bottle lol.

2. The sex is good and convenient.

3. Girl A brags to her gf (Girl B).

4. Girl B (as always) leaks the information to Girl C. Soon it is public information that Girl A and Guy B are dating.

5. Guy C is jealous that he isn't getting any and he's bored with porn videos lol.

6. Girl A is getting bored with her bf Guy B. Two weeks is way too long to be "tied down" with somebody lol.

7. Girl A tells Girl B she's gonna break up with him.

8. Girl B promises to keep it secret and then tells everybody (as always).

9. Guy C finds out and attends the party that Girl A is going to.

10. By now, Girl A broke up with Guy B and has been single and "public property" for five full minutes now lol.

12. Girl A is very sad and distraught about the breakup that was HER idea lol.

13. Guy C hits on Girl A and gives her attention and plenty of C oo rs Light beer lol.

14. Guy C and Girl A secretly hook up later.

15. The cycle repeats.
 

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