Powerlifter said:
I have seen some of the most hot and sexy babies with total nerds or AFC's now explain this experts. If I can lick a find sexy ass or f^ck such then want does it matter if I am an AFC or chump for then I got the prize and enjoying that pus^y
Just saying.
Powerlifter
It's a good (though misinformed) question
Basically as long as you have the ends, who cares how you got there is what you are saying?
Here is my take on the situation, how I understand this all.
Even before I came to this site, I dated some cutie pies. I dated a girl named Tiffany something lol, half black, half Cherokee, SMOKING hot. To this day I still dont' know what she saw in me back then lol. I saw her in the ball and she saw me and I asked for her number and she gave it to me and that was that.
But that's just the thing. I do not, or did not, know what she saw in me. becuase I did not know what she saw in me, or even why she would like a guy, who while handsomme, this was a very very very attractive girl, wanted anything to do with me. I was stense around her. I never had sex with her, even though she would come over my house and lay in mjy bed with me. I was too scared to fvck up.
I never was ugly, and so even when I was a total AFC, there would always be a very hot girl that I just caught the eye of, that my friends would say "what in the fvck, how backbreaker, how..." and hell i was just as flustered as they were lol i didn't know. Also, even though I am black, I grew up in a very very nice neighborhood and had a very very nice house. I had a "crib" so to speak. Every one who would come over, even my oneitis would say something to the effect of "god damn you got a nice ass house" Momma brings home the money. Always had. So me being cute/handsome, and I could bring girls back to my house when my mom was at work (which was always), i had my little mini mojo working. I painted a picture of a young man who was cute and came from good family and was intelligent enough to be going somewhere. but it would never last.
And then there were times, I would date girls, who were not as hot as that, but I had no other options.
And eventually, regardless of how she looked, I would fvck up because I would go aqll AFC on them within a month or so and hell would break lose despoite what she looks like.
The avg guy reminds me of a small fish in the ocean current. You are only going to be as successful as your immediate surroundings. You might luck out and have a hot chick at work check you out, or you might luck out and meat a friend of a friend who is very good looking and she likes you, or you could just as easily be stuck with no options. The bottom line is, you have no real control over what's going on, because you don't KNOW what's going on lol. You are just a squirrel trying to get a nutt.
The more you don't' know, the more you try to figure out, the more time/resources you spend trying to figure out, the more time you have wasted you could have been doing something more productive.
Then, when the currents blow you just in the right place, and you meet a catch, because you don't know the next time a "girl like this" will come along, it's not possible for you not to chump up. Just like it's not possible for the small fish in the ocean to act nonchalant when he sees food when he hasn't eaten in 2-3 days and doesn't know when he is going to eat again.
This site, in short, takes the guess work out of the equation. It's not so much about getting women, it's about KNOWING YOU CAN GET A CERTAIN QUALITY OF WOMAN, TIME AND TIME AGAIN that's important. This site, gives you the tools, to go out and bag 15 pound bass everything you go fishing. And becuase I know that i did not luck into the woman I am dating or that I met or that is showing interest, it allows me to be more confident, thus assuring a longer and more successful relationship
also, and this is just for me, this site is the best thing that ever happened to my business life, because it made me that much more efficient. When you aren't efficient you have to go "fish" everyday. I don't or didn't have to fish all the time, everyday to try to get women. I could meet women everywhere I go, and knew how to talk to them, which let me focus on other things in life, ironically making it easier to go out and talk to women
at least that's how I see this site and how it's helped me. It's taken the guess work out of it all and helped me learn the whys and hows. It help me have a more stable marriage without as many of the ups and downs, that's mutually benefiting. I know I'm not "lucky" to be with my wife, I mean, lol, I am, but you get what I mean.
