"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Explain this girls behaviour too me.

LLed

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Ok this happened when I was talking with my friend and this other girl. Well me and my friend are talking about girls or whatever and the topic of rating goes up. So I go "you think there can ever be such a thing as a perfect 10?" and he goes well YEA!, I was kinda thinking maybe not though. So anyway the girl that was with us all of a sudden started sulking and moved away from us after I had said that and sort of moved to the window to where my friend was asking whats wrong? Now the thing is she didn't care that we were talking about what we were talking about I think she might have joined in, not sure, but it seemed that she started sulking after I made that comment about no such things as perfect 10s. Now in the past I got the feeling she was attracted to me, but she has a BF who she seriously loves and its just a regular kinda attraction probably to any kind of guy nothing special really.. its not going anywhere. The thing is I can't really figure out why she would react that way to that comment? Any thoughts?

Edit: Lol why is w.o.m.a.n.e.e.s.e censored?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Every girl wants to believe she can be a Perfect 10. Like most chicks, this one is just insecure. What to do about it? If her esteem has been lowered, some sweet talking (compliments etc.) might help.

But if she has a BF, why bother? Chasing another girl might also get this one interested again, too.
 
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