"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Explain the Hamster?

Driggs

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Gents, I understand most of the jargon used here. But can you explain to me exactly what you are referring to when you talk about the woman's hamster brain?

Are you talking about the part that really isn't all that intelligent but makes many of her decisions for her based on short term interest?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dgwizdal

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Her hamster is her never-ending rationalization process between logic and emotion within her head that governs attraction and her actions.

Women:
Stimuli ----> Logic or knowledge + "Hamster spin" = how it makes them feel ----> Action based upon feelings

Men:
Stimuli ---->logic or knowledge + calculations = Action based upon logical thought process

This is the very foundation of understanding game and how to elicit response and attraction from women that 99% percent of men on this planet DO NOT KNOW and fail. Repeatedly. Glad you took the Red Pill - :up:

Welcome aboard.
 

Driggs

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Ross Jeffries gave me my pill in around 1992.
 

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The hamster means the little rodent running on a spinning wheel all day.
Your mission is to make this little fvcker run itself to death on that wheel.
You do that by being unpredictable and unaffected by bullsht.
When she's thinking: "Why hasn't he replied to my text?" That's her hamster spinning.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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their subconscious, or their imagination. If she doesn't figure you out, she has to fill in the missing pieces with her imagination. this is where being mysterious and unpredictable comes in.

But she has to be interested in you first, otherwise her hamster wont care.
 

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Any idea who originated the term? It is really a good mental picture for the concept.
 

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The hamster is a very primitive yet persistent little beast. He tirelessly spins the Rationalization Wheel all day...rationalizing past mistakes, poor choices, missed opportunities and bad behaviour. The hamster cannot be negotiated, bargained or reasoned with...he is just a rodent after all. However, he can be easily defeated if you just stop feeding him. Stop giving him information (no contact) and he will starve to death.
 

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Good replies. And it works, too. In most cases, it's even required... especially with the immature, "exciting", out-going types... which most hot girls are. They live for this ****, and lose interest if you're too predictable and "boring".
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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