"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Explain me this...

R00kieDJ

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Why do i lack motivation to train?

I'm always tired, feeling sleepy, and when do long walks or light runs i feel exhausted very soonl, and when i come home from high school i don't feel in the mood to go training. :( I even payed the gym sooner just to have something to give some motivation but....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by R00kieDJ
Why do i lack motivation to train?

I'm always tired, feeling sleepy, and when do long walks or light runs i feel exhausted very soonl, and when i come home from high school i don't feel in the mood to go training. :( I even payed the gym sooner just to have something to give some motivation but....
Are you eating breakfast?
Do you skip meals?
Are you sleeping enough, on a consistent basis?
Are you eating a lot of junk food?
Are you drinking a lot of water?
Are you standing straight with good posture and takin' in enough oxygen?
Are you taking a multi vitamin-mineral supplement?
Are you doing the right type of workout?
Are you using medication, drugs, alcohol, or too much caffeine?

Ask yourself the right questions, and find out where you are. If you are not experiencing any or some of the above, but just feel lazy and don't want to go, then force yourself to go. Whenever you don't feel like going, when its easier to just stay home and play video games, etc. that is exactly when you should go. You might want to consider investing in a trainer for a few sessions.
 

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I'ven trough that some months ago, and then i tried to cut on junk food and sleep at least 8 hours/day, and it worked.
 
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