"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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EXPERTS: Please Walk Me Through This !!

donArjun

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okay experts walk me through this, this is real situation thats happened to me

you have a HB and she is facing you, eyes waiting & attentive.


she is giving you attention, because she is attentively answering your questions.


now what I want to do it grab her take her somewhere, feel her up and make out wit her, and if possible take her to my room and rail her. ..

.I don't know how to approach the next steps after CONVO ...maybe I feel I need to talk to her more , try to make her laugh, or feel more emotions....keep trying to sync with her and maybe hope she'll feel horny enough .....to take her to my room..


I guess I can ask her for her number, and leave it in her court, Whoopi doo , yeah real fun. ( but waist of all that effort in my convo)

but while we have this good moment,

I just feel that the moment we have and things are good, I WANT TO TAKE IT AS FAR AS I CAN GO IN THAT MOMENT, BUT THE PROBLEM IS THAT I DON"T KNOW WHAT ELSE TO DO BUT MAKE GOOD CONVO AND ask for a number...I DON"T KNOW the NEXT STEPS !!! ARE THERE MORE STEPS !!!

can I actually start touching her right after the convo ?

ask for a number. sometimes its not appririate ..

I read this book by anthony berger but thats for ONS in bars I could apply the same steps here but I don't know, I would like to hear from some experiences from EXPERTS to get some ideas !!

uptime now, its been like I make convo , and then I am a dead end, I guess I could go and ask her for her number to have coffee next day, but that process just seems SLOW.


HOW CAN I BECOME MORE EFFECTIVE/ MAKE USE of My CONFIDENCE MORE ? I WANT TO BE MORE QUICKER...

reflecting on this ,


WHAT SHOULD be the approach??

a) Talk to her more & # close
b) START SOME KINO
c) just do what I feel like and try to make a move on her

thanks,

p.s.

appreciate good advice, but IF YOU HAVE A CRITICAL OR FLAME OR NEGATIVE POST< PLEASE DO ME A FAvor and don't post it>
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Woah, you're skipping some big steps here!

Without previous experience, you're most likely not going to succeed with your plans to fvck her. You can't say "I'm going to build a table" and expect yourself to have the most beautiful and level table ever created if you have no previous carpentry experience.

The best thing you can do is get as far as you can with this woman, then move onto the next. You need to keep doing this in order to become good at it. After you're done with the woman you're dating, analyze the mistakes you've made and correct them when the next woman comes along.

now what I want to do it grab her take her somewhere, feel her up and make out wit her, and if possible take her to my room and rail her. ..
Your best bet is to actually take her out on a FUN date and initiate kino. Then, let things evolve to a sexual nature. That's the only thing I can tell you without going through everything that happens when two people are attracted to each other.

Go read some FRs and you'll get a good idea on how to elevate things sexually. Remember that sexuality isn't something that you acquire by following a set of rules or instructions, it's something that happens naturally and automatically. How you act and react with different women will vary.
 
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You're overthinking **** badly, here's my opinion and you'll find that it's true when you think about it. Stop being a scared ***** and go for it, women show interest while men act. Thats nature my friend.

Go for it.. ask her things then ask if she'd like to kick it sometime, there's no harm in that. Go somewhere and spit that game, lie to her if you must, speak passionatly.

It's just fear mang, you've gotta step it up. Make sure you look your best and go for it. There's no super special thing that's going to help.

You're an individual and so is she, you may click or maybe not, if not keep approaching and handlingyour ****. :up:
 
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