"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Expert help needed... im just really weak?

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Hello there,

I've been BBing for quite some time now (7 months) and im happy with the improvements to my body which has grown from 126lb to 150lb however IAM NOT HAPPY with my lifts at all. My strength gains are completely NONE-EXISTANT.

Squat 60kg or 132lb x 8 reps

Barbell Bench Press 25kg or 55lb x 8 reps ( get stuck in the middle quite a lot.. weak triceps?)

Like that is really weak isn't it? Can an expert please help me put together a workout that will boost my strength to extreme levels? Thanks a lot in advance, this is not a bs thread i really am that weak!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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well, something's working, because you're gaining muscle mass

your intensity may be too high. let's see your workout program as it is right now. how much are you eating, btw?
 

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I aim for 200g protein a day. Then i try for as much carbs as i can after that basicly chugging down bread and oats! Its not very scientific but it works and i aim to add 300 calories each week to keep the weight comming.

My workout is this

Workout 1 Arms and Back

DEADLIFT 4 sets 4-8 reps

Lat Pulldown 2 sets 4-8 reps

Dumbell row 2 sets 4-8 reps

Dumbell Curl 2 sets 4-8 reps
Kickback 2 sets 4-8 reps
Hammer curl 2 sets 4-8 reps


Workout 2 Shoulders and Chest

db Shoulder Press 4 sets 4-8 Reps
Dumbell Shrugs 2 sets 4-8 Reps
Bench Press 4 sets 4-8

Workout 3 LEGS and abs

Squats 4 sets 8-12 Reps
Leg extension 2 sets 8-12 reps
Crunches 4 sets 8-12 reps
 

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honestly, i'm not qualified to give you an authoritative response, i'm just trying to ask the right questions until the big dogs get here so they'll have all of the information they need. :)

how long have your lifts been stalling?

it seems like you're eating enough. you might look into changing your workout routine up a little. cut out some of the isolation movements, etc.
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=750551
this is the routine i'm on, my lifts have been doing very well (except for squats, but i'm about to back down the weight on my squats for a while and come back up)
imo it's a great beginner routine
 

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What's up with doing 6 exercises when you can only bench 25kg? Drop that crappy arm routine. Deadlift alone should wear you out, let alone goanother 5 exercises.

Do Compound exercises for some months.

Squat, Deadlift, Row, Bench Press, Dip, Pullup, etc.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Go heavier. Less reps more weight
btw are you counting the weight in the bar?
 

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Every week I force myself to do 5-10lbs more than the previous week on my Squats, Deads and Bench


Don't settle for the same weight as last week.

Also, pull a 3 day split.

Tuesday - Deadlifts
Wednesday - Bench
Friday - Squat

You could put deadlifts on monday or tuesday but i'm guessing your legs will be tired from fridays workout, so i moved it back a day
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
Every week I force myself to do 5-10lbs more than the previous week on my Squats, Deads and Bench
not possible for non-roided humans after a period of bodybuilding.
 

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Skilla is young, its very possible for him :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey, thanks everyone for the replies! I've decided I'm going to do this rippetoe workout and I will start a new log on this website showing my progress.

On a side note I was looking forward to starting the workout tommorow however
today I tripped over some stairs and have badly bruised my toe (swollen quite a bit and is difficult to walk on). I'll see how it is tommorow but it doesn't look good... which is a shame as i wanted to pack on a good 8lb of mass before i hit school in 4 weeks :mad:
 

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shadowfox, good luck man!
maybe you'll be the next Lifeforce and go up 50lbs in muscle mass right before our eyes.

mrRuckus by all means keep preaching the Rippetoe routine! it's great!
 

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TheLazy said:
not possible for non-roided humans after a period of bodybuilding.
Says the guy named TheLazy.:p
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The best thing I can tell you is to listen to your body. If you're hurting in one spot, work on another part of the body. Let the hurting go away (let it heal) before attempting to work that muscle group more.
 
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